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Top 3 Questions Women Have About Sex Toys

Your best friend has been bragging non-stop about the fabulous new vibrator she just bought online. It sounds like so much fun that you wonder if you're missing out on something. Women today have an amazing selection of adult toys to choose from, all designed to make sex more creative, exciting, and satisfying. Still, before you go shopping, you want to be sure you're doing the right thing. Here are answers to three questions women frequently have about sex toys.

Will using a sex toy ruin me for regular sex?

You may be concerned that using a vibrator or another sex toy will change you in some way. For example, will you be less interested in sex with your partner? Will using a toy decrease your sensitivity or your ability to achieve orgasm without toys? Fortunately, these are needless worries. Most women say that sex toys only enhance their love life.

An inanimate sex toy can never take the place of a loving and affectionate human partner. In fact, you may discover a new interest in sexual relations because you are getting more enjoyment out of the experience. Furthermore, if you were able to have orgasms before, you will still be able to climax in the same way. What you'll probably find is that sex toys offer new sensations and more prolonged or intense pleasure.

How do men feel about sex toys?

A few men might feel a little insecure about your desire to get a sex toy. It's important to reassure your partner that you are not trying to replace him in any way. After all, buying a toy is a sign that you are thinking about sex and wanting more of it, right? That can only be a good thing from your partner's perspective.

It won't take long for your guy to realize the benefits of sex toys in the bedroom. Women generally need more foreplay than men to get to the same level of arousal. A toy can help turn up the heat very quickly and make his job of pleasing you a bit easier. Men are also very visually oriented and will enjoy the erotic picture of their partner using a toy.

What are the most popular sex toys for women?

Vibrators and dildos are the favorite toys for women. The vibrator's main function is to vibrate and stimulate the clitoris and other erogenous zones. The dildo, on the other hand, is meant for insertion into the vagina to produce a feeling of fullness. Some dildos also stimulate the clitoris and G spot from the inside. Many toys are both vibrator and dildo in one.

It's not a bad idea to start with a simple toy and find out what you like or don't like before you spend a lot of money on a complicated and costly toy. You can find product reviews online that should give you an idea what to expect from a product. Be sure to get a bottle of water-based lubricant when you buy your toy if you don't already have some at home (or make a quick stop at the drugstore). A dollop of lube is recommended for most vibrator use and is practically a necessity when using insertable toys. And don't forget the batteries!

Not too long ago, adult toy stores catered to men and were seen as a bit sleazy. But now that women are enthusiastic buyers of sexual accessories, it's easy to find shops that are bright, pleasant, and staffed with knowledgeable people who are happy to explain how any device works. If you're ready to maximize your sensual pleasure, there is nothing to be afraid of. Haven't you waited long enough to explore the wonderful world of sex toys?

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