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Sex
After 50
Ha! How many of
you jumped ahead to this page in the guide? It’s not surprising
if you did and hopefully we can lend some positive reinforcement
to certain cultural myths.
The importance
of physical intimacy actually depends on the couple. An alarming
number of men used to give up on sex after 60 and many women
used to feel that their six life ended with menopause. Thankfully,
that is no longer the case.
Sex at middle
age can actually become better and more satisfying than ever
before. Maturity gives a couple more experience in lovemaking.
The children are usually grown and left home. The pressures
of building a career and day to day life are usually less
stressful than in younger years.
Our society places
a disproportionate emphasis on youth, thus reinforcing the
myth that older people have no sexual interest. People have
a natural tendency to believe what society dictates and eventually
just give up on sex after reaching middle age.
There are physiological
changes that affect normal sexual function. Unfortunately
people have taken these changes to mean that sexual function
is over for them which needn’t be the case at all.
Many men age 60
or over worry when they no longer have a spontaneous erection
with visual stimulation. This doesn’t mean that sexual function
is over, but only means that they now require more direct
stimulation. Sadly, many men will avoid intercourse until
they have a spontaneous erection in fear that their wives
will think they have a sexual problem.
As men get older
they need longer periods of time between ejaculations and
over 60 may require a full day or even several between ejaculations.
This does not mean that he cannot enjoy intercourse and lovemaking
in between.
Another serious
problem exists where partners believe that climaxes are absolutely
necessary. The male believes that he must have one and his
female partner believes that if he does not he no longer
finds her attractive.
Lack of lubrication
is a problem for older women and impotence a problem for
men. These are challenges that can be treated and should
be discussed with your physician.
There are many
factors that enter the equation when facing sexual problems.
Medications, alcohol and major illness may be causing a lack
of sexual desire. Again, all are potentially treatable and
should be taken to your physician.
The most important
tool any couple can put to use in their sexual relationship
is the brain. Use it wisely and there is no reason why people
over 50, 60, 70 and over should not have a healthy sexual
relationship with their partner.
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