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Article Series: Breakups
I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back!
Getting
Your Ex Back Is Not A Game
Getting your ex boyfriend back after a break
up does involve some strategy, but that doesn’t make it a game.
This is serious business. You’re dealing with your
future and you’re handling human hearts and emotions. This isn’t the time
to be cute or tricky.
You can get your boyfriend back honestly and ethically if
you take the right approach. Truth be told, that’s the only
way you can get him back for the long run. If you rely
on cheap tricks or gimmicks to get him back in your life, the
reunion
won’t last for long. They are merely short fixes. They might
be good for one night, but they are meaningless for anything
that matters.
There
are a lot of people out there dispensing a great deal of
advice about how to rebuild relationships after they go
through break ups. Some of them are legitimate, rock-solid
perspectives about how to approach a difficult situation
in a smart and
honest way.
Others,
however, are nothing more than a recitation of mind games
that will abuse your ex boyfriend while demeaning
yourself. Setting a bogus jealousy trap isn’t a way to get
your boyfriend back, it’s a way to hurt his feelings while
selling out your own soul selfishly. Exploiting his weaknesses
isn’t a recipe for lasting love, it’s a sick parlor trick that
won’t bring the two of you closer together.
You don’t need to play games to get your ex boyfriend back.
You can do it without taking morally reprehensible shortcomings.
You can do it honestly, in a straightforward way that leaves
your dignity intact.
Which brings us to another common aspect of game playing.
Too many women denigrate themselves under the mistaken belief
that certain strategies make them more appealing to men. I’m
talking about those who rely on cleavage or short skirts to
attract the interest of their ex. This is not a time to try
to be extra seductive. You can do that after the two of you
are together! This is a time to build a strong underlying basis
from which you can grow your relationship.
And that strategy will work better than messing around with
stunts and tricks. If you want to rebuild your relationship
into something meaningful, you’ll need an honest foundation
and a true understanding of one another. Approaching making
up like a game simply can’t provide that.
Do you want him back? Make your best effort. I wish you all
of the best. But please, do it the right way. You want him
back, but you want to be proud of yourself, too. Hearts are
precious and love is special. They are not game pieces and
should be treated with the very utmost in respect.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2009
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