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Article Series: Breakups
I Want My Ex Boyfriend Back!
The
TV Approach To Getting Your Ex Back Is Pure Fantasy
You see it all the time in movies and on television.
A couple breaks up and the woman goes through a series of straightforward
steps designed to get him back.
She gets a new hairstyle. She puts on more makeup. She smiles
more. She might be sporting a new store-bought tan and new
clothes. Does she look a little thinner or like she might be
in better shape? That's all part of the story. She's been making
her gym times regularly in hopes of becoming the woman he really
wants.
That's
the way they do it. Sometimes they throw in a few ridiculous
plot twists. Maybe a jealousy trap of some sort. You get the
idea.
Art, they say, imitates reality. That might be the case here,
too. We see it all the time in real life. Shortly after a break
up, the woman appears. She's eating less, working out more,
wearing shorter skirts and sporting new highlights in her hair.
She's putting herself together for maximum attractiveness,
hoping that her efforts will persuade her ex boyfriend to take
a second chance on their relationship.
There is one distinction between the television approach and
real life, though. On the tube, those superficial little
plans actually pay off. The woman gets her man back and they live
happily ever after.
In
the real world, it rarely looks that way. In the real world,
the guy recognizes the desperation and sees right through the
efforts. He knows that you're trying to get him back and he
isn't playing along.
Even if it did work, it wouldn't keep him around. You can
only keep up an act so long, and making wholesale changes in
hopes of winning back your boyfriend won't last long enough
to be effective. Plus, guys are repulsed by the very scent
of desperation! If you are trying to get hi back with cheap
tricks, you might want to reconsider.
On television and on the silver screen you can get your man
back by putting on a short skirt and smiling suggestively.
In the real world, you need to a complete, genuine person.
That's what really increases your chances of getting back together
with your ex boyfriend.
If you want to get your boyfriend back, it's time to give
up on cute little silly solutions that make better movies than
real-life plans. You need to go after him honestly, authentically
and with dignity. If you do that, you stand a very good chance
of getting him back in your life. If you rely on cheap tricks,
however, the odds are going to be stacked tall against you.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2009
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