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Article Series: Christian Dating
Online Dating: Making The First Move
Online dating is becoming more and more popular.
It is no longer as embarrassing for couples to admit that they
actually met online. However, for people hearing these stories
about how others met online, they may wonder exactly how that
came to be. How did these two people, separated by distance
and in a platform consisting of millions of other people, find
each other in the sea of all that information?
Well, one
of them had to make the first move, after finding
a site that appealed to them. This is not as difficult as it
sounds and in most cases individuals are very happy to learn
how to do this. By talking to an individual online before meeting
them in person, individuals are able to make sure that they
can communicate, which is one of the most important, if not
the most important, aspect of a healthy and loving relationship.
How many times have we left relationships for the simple reason
that we did not talk to our partner and vice versa?
By making
sure that you have something in common with someone else, before getting caught up in the physical chemistry, a
couple can make sure that they are genuinely interested in
each other, assuming that they both want to be in a serious
relationship. Going out to the bars and hitting on hotties
is fine if you are just looking for some action. But if you
want more, you are likely going to have to take that first
step. Here’s how you can successfully accomplish this goal
when you are talking to someone online instead of in person.
Sometimes, it will need to be determined beforehand if the
individual is trying to or will consider approaching an individual
online through email, instant messenger or on a dating website.
Many people feel that meeting an individual on a dating website
is the easiest way to make the first move. This is simply because
many sites will offer the individual a chance to, essentially,
flirt. Instead of needing to send out a big, long note, many
sites enable the person to simply send a small, generic not
or comment that basically just says “I am interested in you”.
This is a great first move to make, because the individual
does not necessarily need to make a big deal out of it and
they do not need to put themselves out there very much. If
the other person is interested in getting to know the first
person, they can let them know in a similar fashion. From there,
it can get more direct.
There are also many people that try to find an individual
on the Internet and use the catchphrase “a/s/l” which is code
for age/sex/location. However, if you really want to make more
of an impression on a person, it is important to consider asking
something a little bit more in depth and personal. This just
helps to show the person on the other end that they are deep
and real, and actually interested in the person they are talking
to. The same approach can be used in order to send an email
to a person that an individual is trying to connect with online.
When an individual is aware of how they are going to be accessing
the individual that they are interested in, they can figure
out what they would like to do and how they would like to approach
the person. There are many ways for individuals to be contacted
online and by deciding which method will be used, a person
can begin to expand on their specific approach to this.
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: 2007
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