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How To Set Up Your Christian Friends on a Date
While there are certain things that would
be fun for you to do to your friends that you are setting up
on dates, such as not telling them that the individual they
are being set up with is Christian, and instead insinuating
that they are a part of some type of cult, but other than that
really nice, most people are looking for fun tips that would
be a little bit more constructive and helpful when it comes
to doing such things. Instead, focus on some tips that may
actually be a little bit more substantial when it comes to
the dating game and scene. Especially when it comes to setting
up two friends, it is very important to choose carefully.
After awkward blind
dates, many people will often walk away
thinking, “What on Earth made my friend think that I would
be interested in someone like this”? It is important not to
think about the things that you see in your friend are positive
traits. Think about the other friend in general and then decide
whether or not they would make a good pair. This is the first
fun tip when it comes to setting up Christian friends: make
sure that they have some things in common and would appreciate
each other regardless of who is setting them up and why. They
need to be able to stand on their own, on their own merit,
and be able to appear as an attractive and well likely companion.
Not from your perspective, but from your friends’ perspectives
in general.
Second, another fun tip is to make sure that they have seen
pictures of each other. While some people may mistake this
to mean locate the most awkward pictures of your friends and
show them to each other them, this is not what is meant. Make
sure to find some good pictures, and make sure that both the
friends seem interested in each other before trying to pursue
anything further. This is a very important step that could
potentially help save a great deal of time in the long run
and in the short run. Third, make sure to ask if there was
anything of the utmost importance that they are looking
for in their partners and then feel the other friend out for each.
This is a great way to test whether or not the individuals
would actually be very compatible in the long run and it will
also save the friends’ time if they are already aware as to
whether or not their date is able to be successfully matched
up with their ideal criteria.
This will improve your status not just as a matchmaker, but
as a friend as well. Fourth, it can be very helpful for you
to ask each friend what it is that is most important
to him or her about their faith. On the date, this is also a neat
question for the two of them to review together, simply so
that they can be aware of how they each feel about certain
aspects of the faith that they share. Many people can appreciate
this approach, and it helps the two of them to understand each
other better as well. Fifth, just encourage the two of them
to have fun. After all, this is what it is all about. The majority
of the focus on the date should be on having fun and encouraging
the two individuals to have the most amount of fun together
that they can have. This is about being together and enjoying
each other’s company and some people need to be reminded of
this.
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