Be Careful About Where You Get Your Advice

Dear Doc,

If a woman seems to like me could she be genuine or do women sometimes like to play mind games and tease/flirt when they have no interest/intention of dating? I have been talking with a woman at my office building on breaks and she really seems to want to be with me and tells me about her personal life, yet I am wondering if she is sincere.

Also, if a woman has lived with a man before marriage and ends the relationship is she less likely to be committed to her future boyfriend/husband? Plus do women who have pre-marital sex more likely to become frigid and not like sex than women who do not have sex outside of marriage. I remember being told that women do not like to have sex outside of a deeply committed relationship and that pre-marital sex damages them in many psychological ways.

Have a nice day!

Thanks,
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Hello!

I don't know where you're getting your information from, but I'd fire that advisor! To wit:

Women can have all sorts of reasons for showing interest - even when they're not interested. Simply showing interest isn't enough. For instance, many women seek male attention and approval. By telling you her personal stories, she may be trying to make you a "friend" - something you absolutely DO NOT want. If you become this woman's friend, you'll never be anything else but. No dating, no relationship - and no possibility of anything else.

Living with someone has no impact on how likely - or unlikely - it is that a woman will be committed to a boyfriend. That's actually in the man's hand. If you're skilled at creating desire in women, they will commit everything. Trust me on this one.

In fact, it's just the opposite with premarital sex. Any woman that wants to wait may very well become non-sexual in her marriage. Women that don't wait learn to be better lovers - and learn to enjoy it far more according to much research.

Who ever told you that lie about women and premarital sex deserves a hard, square kick in the ass because they don't have a clue about the reality.

Best regards...

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