Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
Dating
on Facebook
Hello Dr. Neder:
This last weekend, I bumped into an old friend that happens
to be friends with my ex. She was with another friend with
whom I hit it off really well. We all decided to go hang out
for a while.
She and I flirted quite a bit and we spent the entire evening
together. She and I took a taxi home where I kissed her on
the cheek when we got to her place.
She gave me her Facebook name and I friended her. As well,
I left my number with out mutual friend.
Since all of this happened, I haven't heard anything from
her. I may just be getting a little impatient, but I'm not
sure what to do to keep her interested.
-------------------- Hello!
Why didn't you close this girl for her digits when you had
the chance? Now, you have to play the Facebook game with her,
going back and forth and you STILL have to get her number anyway!
That's terrible form - and you'd better trust me on this one
- she IS going to play you here! You set yourself up for this
and now she's going to take full advantage of it.
Here's a simple rule: don't EVER accept only an email address
or Facebook or MySpace connection! It's far, far easier to
play you and try to keep you on the hook as long as she can
without going anywhere. This is exactly what is going to happen
now.
You didn't bother asking me a question here - you just told
me a story, so I'm going to have to assume you want an answer
as to what to do now.
The answer is to get her damn digits already! If she won't
give them to you, you're going to have to kick yourself for
being so dumb and move on.
Tell her to give them to you and CALL HER; DO NOT try to flirt
or date this girl on Facebook! You're just going to cause her
to lose interest very quickly and you'll lose her. Get to another
date right away and turn on the charm. This HAS TO (and I mean
HAS TO) be done in person!!!!
Best regards...
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