Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
The Ex In
The Way
I have the hots
for this girl I’ve known for about a year. We have spent time
together and I know she feels the same.
My problem is,
I’m separated from my wife and it's putting her off. I need
to know how to make her jealous without making it obvious and
also how to eventually win her heart.
Maybe she feels
I’m not to be trusted cause I’ve cheated on girls before. I
know she feels the same but I don’t want to make a fool of myself.
Thanks...
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Hello!
Well, you could
get back with the ex and have the best sex of your life – that’d
make her jealous! No, I think there’s a better way.
I think you really
want to do two things:
1) Make her jealous;
and,
2) Change her mind about you, your ex and your past.
If you just go
out and start banging a bunch of women and make it obvious,
she's going to think you're a player, which will just put her
off even further.
On the other hand,
if you just seem to be busy - and aren't around when she calls
or wants to talk, her feminine mind will start working and you'll
have the power you're looking for. So, do this:
1) Be scarce. Don't
answer the phone, and take at least a few days to call her back.
2) Never answer
the phone, or make return calls to her on the weekends - after
all, you're busy, right?
3) Always cut any
conversation with her short by saying, "Oh, sorry - I have
to run. I'll call you later... bye." [click!]
4) Talk about the
great time you had with a "friend" the other night.
Don't specify the sex of this "friend".
5) When you are
out with her, have fun! Make your time with her something to
remember – but don’t hesitate to flirt a little with other women
too. Bring them in and make the part of the party!
Finally, for God's
sake - don't talk about your wife with this woman other than
to say how much you’re over her! Every time you bring her up
in a positive vein, you're just confirming her greatest fear
- that she's still in the picture. No woman wants to have to
compete with that!
Best regards...
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