The Elusive "G Spot"

I have tried everything that I have read, and been told to try when it comes to finding the g-spot. I have even bought toys to use on myself, but have had no luck at all.

I have been told were it is, and that if you feel like you have to pee, then you are doing the right thing, and to just let it go. When I do this the only thing that I get is pee (it's not a pretty picture!) I have even gone pee before hand, and I get the same out come, or lack there of.

Do you have any advice on how I can find my g-spot? I would hate to think that I am going to have to go all my life with out it. Please help me!!!

Thank you!

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Hello!

Don't get all wrapped up in your g-spot! Every woman is different. You might not have the same experience as other women with your own anatomy. Frankly, what's important isn't that you find it - or that you even have one; what's important is that your sexual response is healthy and that you are comfortable with your body!

In most women, the g-spot is a fleshy area about 1-1/2 to 2 inches inside the front wall of your vagina (if you were standing up). You can sometimes find it by inserting a finger inside you while lying on your back and curving it upwards. You may (or may not) find an area that has a slightly different sensation. I've never heard of anyone saying it felt like you had to pee, but again, every woman is different!

Consider that some women are able to climax in a slightly different way from this type of stimulation. This climax sometimes includes an ejaculation of fluid that isn't urine at all, but is actually mostly water and other materials. I've had women riding me that came so hard they ejaculated and actually soaked the bed and me!

These are all normal physical reactions and if you have them, fine. If not, fine. The key isn't to be like everyone else. It's to be healthy and happy in the way that fits YOU.

Best regards...

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