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Spending
Evenings Together
Hello. My boyfriend wants me to visit him every evening.
When I'm there, his idea about spending ideal time together
is watching sports on TV. I don't like sports so I get very
bored. How could I make our time together more interesting
for both of us?
------------------- Hello!
I recommend
that you two get a "couple's hobby".
This is simply something that neither of you have ever done
before, but that you're both interested in. Then, you get to
start at the same place.
This will give you something new that you both can get exited
about and share and grow together through. You can even get
involved with organizations that are built around that hobby
and meet other friends that share the same interests. What
you're effectively doing is building an entire community through
just doing something fun.
Your boyfriend needs to understand your lack of interest in
sports and also needs to understand that your relationship
needs to be built on more than his interests here if he wants
to keep you. Really, how long could this possibly last? It
sounds pretty boring to me.
Best regards...
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