Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
Meeting
Women in a Book or Music Shop
Hello Doc -
Is a bookshop or a music shop a good place to ask women out?
If so, how do you start a conversation? Wouldn't it be strange?
You see, I haven't met anyone that great through friends or
at bars and clubs.
I also wanted to know what to do when either you or she is
with a group of friends. I haven't heard of many people hooking
up like that. Also, it's usually a problem (for me at least)
when you do not have a mutual friend, to introduce you.
Thanks for your help.
---------------------------------- Hello!
I'm not surprised at all that you aren't meeting great women
at bars or clubs. These both are in the top 3 worse places
to meet women (the 3rd being the Internet.)
Yes, bookstores and music shops are probably two of the best
places you'll ever find to meet women. I'd only ask them out
however if you've created enough rapport and connection. Then,
you can move things into the attached-coffee shop or somewhere
else local. Otherwise, just do a number close and call her
later.
No, there's
nothing strange about this at all! You're just a nice guy
that happens to meet a nice girl.
You open with
the context ("What do you like most about that author/topic/section/etc.?")
Once you get the conversation going then you go into more rapport/connection
building and finally close.
If you
want to know more about all sorts of great places to meet
women, and different approaches to use,
check out my e-book, "1001
Places and Techniques to Meet Great Women".
With regards
to meeting women in groups, this is much more complicated
than I can get into via email. There
are very specific
ways of approaching women solo or in groups whether you're
alone or with friends yourself. It's not tough to learn, but
it takes quite a while to describe. In fact, we just released
the "Hunting Seminar on DVD" that goes into all of
this in great depth. It's not as easy as simply memorizing
some dumb pick-up line, but it's not hard and is vastly more
effective!
You're right that most people DON'T do this - but that's only
because they don't know how easy it really is. This is a great
way to approach women, and you shouldn't have to rely on friends
to introduce you at all. If you do, you're missing a TON of
great girls.
Best regards...
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