Online dating tips and relationship advice from Dr. Neder...
My Girl
Flirts
Dear Dr. Neder,
My girlfriend says
she loves me and I know she does, but why does she get so happy
when other guys flirt with her?
Another question:
Why does she always bring up the past of her ex's all the time
because it really makes me mad about the stuff she says like
when she went camping all these guys were checking her out.
Do you think it is to make me jealous?
Because she has
been in a lot of relationships that the guys didn’t care what
she said about anything because a lot of them cheated on her,
I'm the one trying to make everything for her right now.
How do I do so?
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Hello!
Here's why she
gets so happy: she's an "Attention Whore" ("AW").
She craves male attention. This is bad, Bad, BAD for you by
the way! If she gets enough of it or the right type from some
other guy, she's going to fall out of love with you.
She brings up the
past because she has no respect for you or your relationship.
Personally, I don't care and realize that the girls I date have
had a past life, but they rarely talk about it to me. Know why?
Because they respect me and don't want to risk causing any harm
to our relationship. Does this sound like your girl? Not to
me.
This isn't to make
you jealous - it's because she's an AW.
Now, here you are,
the "nice guy" and you're trying to make everything
right for her. What's she doing to earn it? She's seeking all
sorts of attention from other guys in hopes of meeting a "real"
man one day.
My brother, I strongly
urge you to be this man by completely changing your attitude,
or you're going to lose this woman to someone like me. Trust
me on this one - I see it everyday in the thousands of emails
I receive. I also strongly urge you to read "Being a Man
in a Woman's World I & II" and get this straightened
out. Don't say I didn't warn you!
Best regards...
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