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Being a
Pussy Will Make You Blue
Help! What should
I do?
I love a woman
who I have been with for 9 months. She is long-distance and
has stated that she loves me but she also has admitted to seeing
another guy where she goes to school and one back home too.
She says that she
only loves me and she knows that I am the best one for her but
she needs to have companionship and that she feels that we are
on different levels as far as relationships go.
I have forgiven
her for cheating on me and have held on. She says she is working
on letting the other guys go because her family, friends, and
even she knows that I am good for her.
What should I do?
I really love her!
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Hello!
Let's see: you
have "forgiven her" for cheating on you? Well, you're
not going to get off that easy with me!
What the hell are
you doing? This woman is far away, and you "love her".
Just because she claims that she loves you doesn't mean shit!
She can claim anything she wants to but that doesn't make it
so. In fact, she's only in love with herself! She "loves"
the fact that she has some jackass hung on a string (you) that
will put up with any damn thing she wants to do!
WAKE UP!!! Its
ACTION not WORDS that count!
Think about this:
is there anything worthwhile in this "relationship":
1) She's at a distance,
making this a long-distance relationship;
2) She is free to do anything she wants to do with anyone she
chooses because she knows you're not there to check up on things;
3) She's cheated on you not with just one guy, just once, but
obviously with multiple guys, multiple times - and those are
just the guys she tells you about!
Pull your head
out of your ass and see this for what it is: she has no respect
for you OR your "relationship", she doesn't "love
you" like she claims and you tolerate all of this.
It's time to be
a man. Kick this bitch to the curb and start working on yourself.
You don't deserve to be treated this badly - that is a fact.
There are women right in your own backyard that would really
love AND respect you. This woman does neither.
Best regards...
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