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5
Ways
To Develop Rapport With Someone
Now let’s take
a quick peak at the basics of developing rapport with others.
In a nutshell, what it takes is to ask questions, have a
positive, open attitude, encourage an open exchange of communications
(both verbal and unspoken), listen to verbal and unspoken
communications and share positive feedback. Here are a few
details on each step.
Ask Questions
Building repore
is similar to interviewing someone for a job opening, or
it can be like a reporter seeking
information for an article. Relax and get to
know the other person with a goal of finding common ground
or things
of
interest. You can begin by simply commenting on the other
person’s choice of attire, if in person, or about their
computer, if online, and following up with related questions.
For example, in person, you could compliment the other
person on their color choice and or maybe a pin, ring
or other piece of jewelry and ask where it came from. In
online
communications, you could compliment the other person’s
font, smile faces or whatever they use, mention that
the communication style seems relaxed and ask if he or she
writes a lot. Then basically follow up, steering clear
of topics that could entice or cause arguing, while gradually
leading the person to common ground you’d like to discuss.
Attitude
Have a positive
attitude and leave social labels at home (or in a drawer,
if you’re at home). Many people
can tell instantly if you have a negative attitude or
if you feel superior. So treat other people as you would
like
to be treated. And give each person a chance.
Open Exchange
Do encourage others to share with you. Some
people are shy, scared or inexperienced in communicating
and welcome an opportunity to share. So both with body
language and verbal communication invite an exchange. Face
the other person with your arms open, eyes looking into
theirs gently (not glaring or staring), and encourage a
conversation with a warm smile.
Listen
Be an active listener. Don’t focus your thoughts
on what YOU will say next. Listen to what the other person
is saying and take your clues from there, while also noting
the body language. For example, if the other person folds
his arms and sounds upset, you may need to change the subject
or let him have some space and distance; maybe even try
approaching him later on and excusing yourself to go make
a phone call (of head to the buffet table or somewhere
to escape). On the other hand, if the other person is leaning
towards you, following your every word and communicating
with your as if you were old friends, BINGO. You’ve built
rapport!
Share
People like compliments.
So hand them out freely without over doing it. Leaving a
nice part of yourself
like a compliment is a good memory for the other person
to recall - - numerous times. That’s good rapport.
But do be sincere! False compliments aren’t easily disguised.
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