Jealousy is, without a doubt, one of the biggest relationship
killers there is.
A person gets jealous of their spouse's co-workers, best friends,
or even just of the person they get coffee from every morning,
and when that happens, they get stupid. No, there's no easy
way to put it - we as people get stupid when we're jealous.
It's a fact of life.
Because we get stupid, our spouses get angry, and annoyed.
They know that nothing is going on, so why don't you know?
Worse, your partner can feel hurt and betrayed by the fact
that your jealousy (in their mind) means that you don't trust
them.
When someone feels like their partner is overly jealous, they
can get upset, and decide 'Hey, they think I'm cheating - let's
give them something to really be jealous about', and it can
become a miserable, vicious cycle that no one likes. And in
the end, the jealousy will ruin even the most solid marriage
or relationship.
Don't fall into that cycle - don't get stupid. If you care
about your partner, continue reading and discover the 10 steps
to jealousy-free living... and with it, a better relationship
for both of you. |