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10 Signs of a Cheating Spouse
10 Signs of Cheating Spouse Activity You Should
Watch For
While many people see marriage as a committed relationship
where fidelity is essential, there are others who see nothing
wrong with a dalliance outside the marriage now and then. Usually,
their spouses do not share that philosophy. If you suspect
that you and your spouse have differing opinions on the issue
of fidelity, here are 10 signs of cheating spouse activity
you should be on the lookout for.
1.
He or she suddenly is working late. If there is a raise,
a special project, or a possible promotion in the offing, this
may be legitimate and free of any hanky panky. But if it seems
as if your spouse works late one, then two, then three nights
a week without any of these situations existing, something
may be up.
2.
New clothes. If your spouse begins to purchase clothing
that is a little younger or a little different in style from
what he or she normally likes, it may be a sign of the influence
of a new playmate. This is especially true if these new styles
are not anything you have suggested would look good on your
spouse.
3.
Sexy undergarments. If your man goes from wearing boxers
to bikini briefs without asking your opinion, then he did not
buy them for your benefit. By the same token, if a woman buys
sexy lingerie and does not model the ensemble for her husband,
rest assured somebody else is getting the benefit of the visual
delight.
4.
Fresh scents. If your spouse has worn the same cologne
or perfume for years and decides to go with something new and
trendy, this may be an attempt to become more desirable - to
someone other than you.
5.
Change in Hygiene Habits. More frequent showers, changing
soaps and shampoos for no apparent reason, and carrying breath
mints around after avoiding them like the plague for years
means something is probably up.
6.
Preoccupation. If a spouse is cheating, there is often
a certain amount of withdrawal. The cheating spouse becomes
quieter around the house, often contributing less to conversations.
7.
Decrease in sexual activity. When a spouse who used to
display a great deal of interest in engaging in sex and being
affectionate begins to be tired and have frequent headaches
at bedtime, it could be they are having their needs met elsewhere.
8.
Overcompensation. This is one of the most common of all
the 10 signs of cheating spouse activity. The cheating wife
may go out of her way to be understanding when her husband
wants to go out with his buddies. In like manner, the cheating
husband may start showing up with flowers and other little
gifts for no apparent reason.
9.
Money is disappearing. Motel rooms are not free. If money
seems to be a little tighter even though the family budget
shows no new bills, something may be up.
10.
Changes in temperament. Cheating spouses may suddenly
become easily irritated, or develop a great deal of apathy.
This loss in interest may begin in the bedroom and spread to
other areas of the marriage in a short period of time.
While there are other explanations for all of the 10 signs
of cheating spouse activity, it is important to recognize these
possible signs that something is up. When two or more become
apparent, take steps to find out if there is a problem or if
the sign is the result of some other set of circumstances that
do not involve cheating.
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: 2008
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