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Wearing Lingerie: Sizzling Secrets
How
Do I Buy Lingerie for Her?
The first thing you want to think about when
shopping for your lady is that you are shopping for HER, not
you. That statement cannot be said enough. Just because
you find something sexy and alluring does not mean she does
or
that she feels comfortable in it. If she does not like it,
or feel good in it, she will not wear it. So do not run out
and get the most revealing, uncomfortable piece of lingerie
know to man just because it is eye candy. This will probably
get your purchase used as a rag or in the garbage can when
you are at work. You want to ask yourself what would she wear.
What does she like? Will she feel good and comfortable in this?
This can be a very difficult task to say the least. However,
knowing what types of lingerie are out there and what kinds
she likes will very beneficial for you.
The next thing to consider is the actual type of lingerie
out there. You will want to make sure that you are finding
what you are looking for and not just plane old panties and
bras. You want something special that will suit her style and
body. You will want to know the difference between a corset
and a bustier. You might think there is none but there truly
is. A corset is designed to cinch the waist and flatten the
bust line to produce a specific amount of cleavage. A bustier
has bra like cups in it and does not have waist cinching. The
difference between a Chemise and a Baby Doll is that a chemise
is more conservative and a bit longer. The Baby Doll has bra
like cups and is a bit shorter and more revealing. Baby Dolls
often come with matching panties, as chemises usually do not.
Then there are the teddies that are like a one-piece outfit.
So now you know the basic styles. Now
you must know her size. Here is the most confusing part about lingerie shopping. There
is more than one size type depending on the type of lingerie
you purchase. When buying any lingerie that has cups in it
you will have to know her bra size. This is the size that says
32 B, 36 D, 34 C, etc. This is critical to know or she will
not fit into it properly and will not wear it. For all other
types of lingerie you will have to know her shirt and dress
size. You will want to know both the number and generic size.
Look on her clothing to see if she is an 8, 10, 6, etc. then
look on other articles to see if she wears a small, medium,
or large. If you buy something too small she will think you
want a smaller woman. To buy something too big, she will think
that you think she is fat. You must have the right size so
she knows you want her.
Once you have decided on what style will suit her and make
her feel comfortable, then now you need to think color. You
need to be sure that this hides anything she feels is a flaw.
An example would be if she is constantly complaining about
her hips then you will not want to go with a teddie that outright
exposes that area. Go through her draws and see what colors
she likes. Pick out a color that enhances her eyes and skin
tone. See what other lingerie she has. This will help you find
the perfect style and color for her that she will enjoy. Take
your time while shopping and don’t rush things. You can also
always ask for help if you are having a hard time finding what
you are looking for. Always go with items that have adjustable
straps. This will allow her to fit the garment right for her
body. Detachable straps are always good too, especially with
corsets and bustiers. This will allow her to determine if she
is comfortable with out the straps or is almost like two outfits
in one. When buying matching panties you will want to know
what style she wears and get that kind. For garters and stocking
make sure you are positive she likes these and they have adjustable
straps. Most importantly have fun shopping and make it exciting
for her. When done right, you can expect to go out again and
again together, which is the best fun.
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