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Wearing Lingerie: Sizzling Secrets
Why
Do Women Love Wearing Lingerie?
There are many theories on why women love
to wear lingerie. For women it isn’t about whether or not anyone
else will see it, it is for themselves. How women perceive
themselves helps their over all self esteem. If you think you
look sexy in that camisole then you are sexy. Looking and feeling
good is a big part our society today. Many people assume when
a woman wears lingerie that is solely for a man’s pleasure.
Even though lingerie has been worn for centuries for the pleasure
of the opposite sex, it is not the main focus for women these
days or in the past. Now it is more of a notion of self-image
and feeling attractive for ones self rather than for anybody
else. It is about feeling good about the whole you and knowing
you are sexy even when you don’t readily show everyone else.
Interestingly enough, marketing approaches have also changed
as well these last few years. Their message today not only
promotes looking sexy for your partner, they also tell you
to feel sexy for you as well and more importantly. Lingerie
has always made to be exotic and teasing. Today, women can
get just as much pleasure just from wearing it as they can
by being viewed in it. In some cases they can get more out
of just wearing it for them and not other. Some women are very
shy and are not willing to immediately slip into something
sexy for some one else’s viewing pleasure. This type of display
can make them feel awkward or anxious. Just wearing the sexy
lingerie when no one else knows can help spark self-esteem
and desire in her self. Now designers are gearing this sexy
wear for comfort, movement, and everyday practicality as well
as sleek and sexy. Not only does this trend in design say a
lot about marketing it says a lot about women in society today.
Back in the day of boned corsets that left women barely able
to breathe or move, comfort was not the option. It was implied
that proper women did not move all around and had no need to.
It was also under the premise that women had no need to be
out in the world. Their job was to cater to their husbands,
home and families. Comfort was not in the equation. Not to
mention that lingerie was not for the common women so it carried
prestige and merit. But as the time changed and women became
more active in political, economical, and the social realms
of the world lingerie has taken a huge change. It is not geared
towards the woman her self and the comfort and sexiness she
needs. There for lingerie had to become modernized by being
less restrictive. There is lingerie and intimate apparel for
all occasions that are of great comfort and flexibility for
every taste and body type today.
Lingerie designers are finally recognizing that beauty is
not some standardized thing. Women are now demanding
that designers make sexy and practical lingerie that is realistic
and designed
for all women, not just the standard. Women want to feel and
look beautiful to them. That beauty and appreciation for their
own body will permeate their personality and trickle into all
areas of their lives. Women are tired and have no use to constantly
try to fit into some impossible idealistic box anymore. It
is now about being appreciated for the individual you. This
has been proven with the burst of lingerie for fuller sized
women today. The designs of today are now finally geared to
the real size women and she can feel sexy too. So now fuller
figured women can also feel and look as sexy too, no matter
what their size is.
The wearing of lingerie for a woman can be as much sensual
as it sexual. It has to do with self-image. The women today
are strong, independent, and vibrant and should be free to
explore their own personal sexuality. The shopping for and
wearing of lingerie today is such a sensual pleasure for women
today. It is not the lingerie that gives a women confidence
it is the woman’s self-esteem created by feeling good about
her self that gives her an air of confidence, beauty, and sensitivity.
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: 2006
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