KissMeGoodnight
eRomance Series: Love & Romance
Teach Me The ABC's Of Being Romantic
( 22 pages )
Are You A Good Kisser?
What is romance without a kiss?
When wishing
for romance, your kisses had better be good to make a favorable
impression. It may not be fair, but some will judge you on
your first kiss as to whether or not they will want to see
you again.
In other words,
there needs to be good chemistry when kissing.
A good kiss delivers
a powerful impact! If you're a great kisser, you're going
to turn your date on and you will have a definite edge.
What distinguishes
a good kisser from the kisser we all want to forget? The
key is to be soft and gentle and follow their lead. Here
are some good romantic kissing tips to enhance your love
life:
STEP ONE
- Be careful
not to startle - watch and wait for the signal to proceed
- Avoid the ‘ambush’ kiss (although
these can be exciting as your relationship progresses.)
- Look deeply into your partner’s
eyes. This will send the message that you like them and
want to be closer to them. Look for their signals as well.
- Look for a warm, kind smile
(even a slight smile is good; it doesn’t have to be BIG.)
- Pay attention to the look on
your loved one’s face. This will indicate where they want
to go with this kiss.
STEP TWO
- Look for good
balance. As you move closer to that magical kiss, you don’t
want to be leaning too forward awkwardly to get there.
- As you move closer you are
sending signals. You want your body to be in a comfortable
position during the kiss, so you can enjoy every moment
of it.
- Go for a light touch just before
the kiss. While a hand lightly on the face is a definite
signal of intimacy, holding hands combined with eye contact
and a warm look can indicate the beginning of a great kiss
to come.
- Make sure you are aligned correctly
at this point. This means not only getting your lips on
track with theirs, but getting the head tilted correctly
as well.
- Tilt your head slightly to
one side first. Your partner will likely react and tilt
the other way. This is a mutual sign that the kiss will
be very welcomed.
STEP THREE
- Relax your
lips, close your eyes.
- Move in slowly. During step
number two you made sure the two of you were aligned correctly,
now you can close your eyes as you’re just about to make
contact.
- Relax your lips, not tightly
pressed together. Give your partner the pleasant experience
of feeling your lips softly against theirs.
- Your lips should be recently
moistened, but not wet.
STEP FOUR
- Relax your
lips, tilt your head and breathe evenly.
- Moving in, you can part your
lips slightly just before contact. Keep your lips relaxed,
your tongue in your mouth.
- Keep your head tilted so both
of you can still breathe comfortably on contact and as
the perfect kiss is held...
S A V O R every
moment ... be slow, gentle, easy.
STEP FIVE
- Keep it sweet,
not too long and not too wet.
- Don’t pull away too quickly
or make any quick movements. Savor. Savor. Savor. Feel
the power and romance of the kiss.
Enjoy the moment!
STEP SIX
- Take your
time and don’t rush. Make eye contact, nonverbal and verbal
messages.
- To end, pull away slowly and
make eye contact again. Show a satisfied, warm smile to
reinforce how you feel.
- Enjoy the closeness, relax,
and finish the kiss with a warm embrace.
A few, thoughtful
words, such as, “That was delightful,” can be whispered.
Try to reinforce how you felt about your kiss with positive
words.
Your partner will appreciate this and this can break the
ice a little.
Now that you
have mastered the romance of a kiss....you are well on your
way to learn even more about how to enhance your romantic
life!
A
Kiss...That Special Feeling
What is that
feeling people get from a good kiss that's so hard to explain?
How does kissing come into play when being romantic?
Women often compare
a good kiss to "melting butter" and like being "hit
by a wave," according to a recent survey. Men often
describe it as similar to "vibrations at a concert" or
a "three pointer at the buzzer to win the NCAA basketball
tournament," according to the same survey.
Experts have
proven there is a lot of physiology behind the warm and fuzzy
feelings that come from a good kiss.
Feelings of romantic
love, and kissing, stimulate the same type of brain activity
as many sports, such as: parachuting, bungee jumping and
distance running, for example.
These same types of activities cause the brain to experience a surge in norepinephrine,
dopamine and phenylethylamine (or just PEA to some.) These neurotransmitters
attach to pleasure receptors in the brain and create feelings of euphoria,
giddiness, elation and such.
So, next time
you feel romantic and want to show your love to someone special,
go for that wonderful kiss -- it will definitely leave a
lasting impression!
A kiss is a lovely
trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become
superfluous. ~ Ingrid Bergman
 
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