KissMeGoodnight
eRomance Series:
Spice Up My
Ice Cold Love Life NOW!
( defibrillator ready...clear...your romance at heart is back
)
( 22 pages )
NEW
HOPE FOR A TIRED RELATIONSHIP
We are all familiar with the phrase, “love springs eternal,” BUT,
just how does one bring this phrase to life in a relationship
that is slowly disappearing?
When we are engaged
in a solid, loving relationship, the stars shine brighter,
the moon glows bigger and everything else in life seems to
just fall into place.
This is ideal,
of course! The reality is that our love life often needs
extra care and attention, even at the best of times.
The good news
is there are effective love life enhancing tips and hints
available to those who need new insights and creative ideas
to even jump start a love life that has fallen off-course.
It becomes a
pretty tall order to have the creative love juices surging
deep within all of the time. Saying, “I love you,” can be
simple enough, but, showing how much you love him or her
is something entirely different.
When
your Love Life Slides off the Track
How often have you heard the statement, “The passion is
gone?” Perhaps you feel you are more like roommates, than
lovers. Once the excitement in a loving relationship goes out
the door, so can the passion.
Once you have
experienced distance in your relationship, and affection
starts to wane, you can feel great sadness. When you begin
to lose all the important things that seemed to matter when
you first met, it can be difficult to begin again.
You can breathe
new life into your love life! It is time to pour new energy
into showing your partner just how much they mean to you.
Even Before you
Begin....
- Resolve to
never give up! Have a plan and then see it through right
until the very end. A good relationship is worth every
minute of your efforts!
- If you are feeling you are
the only one doing all of the work in this relationship
and you just want out, think again! Your interpretation
of your relationship will color how you act next.
You need to be positive to move forward. Don’t make a rash
decision while in the heat of the moment. Take some time
to cool off, to re-group and then to remain committed. You
are going to learn how to enhance your love life!
- Forget about the idea of making
another relationship work when the one you are in now needs
work. If you are not willing to do the work needed in your
current relationship, remember that a new relationship
will be even more difficult to work through.
We carry the baggage from our unresolved relationships right
into the new ones!
- Think that the upset you feel
now will bring about the wisdom necessary to grow in your
relationship, despite the situation. You will be stimulated
to face what comes next. Enhancing your love life takes
work!
- Fixing a relationship that
involves two, takes two. You must both agree to this, otherwise,
the relationship will end when one partner refuses to do
the work.
- Once the decision to move forward
is clear by both parties, enhancing your love life will
take both partners working together, making new promises
and beginning with a first step.
- There needs to be action now.
You both want to be making new choices such as changing
your thinking, engaging in new behavioral patterns and
changing your relationship from one that is just so-so
into one filled with love and promise.
- Remember -- it is much wiser
to learn to remake the future than to continue to relive
the past. Tell yourself this truth, over and over.
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