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Types of Relationships (Pros & Cons)
The stereotype is that men only want one type
of relationship: quick, fun, and casual. But what if that won’t
make you happy? You can try it if you’d like, but if you decide
you want something else – something more, then you need a different
approach to get a different end result.
Here are a few descriptions of various relationship types
– choose which one you’d prefer:
Casual
and quick
This is the classic “no expectations” relationship
playboys are famous for. You might meet once or twice and have
some fun, but you really don’t expect to see her again, and
you don’t really care. Pros: It’s easy to date a lot of women this way, and it can
be fun and exciting for awhile.
Cons: You don’t really get to know any women, and getting
intimate physically before you’re intimate emotionally can
have serious side effects, such as a trail of angry and bitter
women behind you. A bad reputation caused by this kind of dating
can damage your future relationships.
Casual
and friendly
You might be seeing one woman or
two or three – they all know you’re not serious yet and
all of
you are free to date other people. Pros: If you’re not ready to settle down or you’re still deciding
what type of woman you like to date, this is the way to go.
Cons: Sometimes a small thing will send the relationship down
a more serious path, and you might not realize it until she
asks your opinion about the wedding invitations. Then, you
need to gently bring the relationship back where it was, or
you have some explaining to do to your other casual dates.
Serious
and friendly
You’re in an exclusive relationship
with one woman, and she’s exclusively dating you. It could
be because you haven’t found anyone else to compare with her,
or it could be that you’re thinking of making a formal commitment.
Either way, you’re both happy and neither of you wants to see
anyone else. Pros: You really know this woman, and she really knows you.
You’re comfortable with each other, and neither of you is going
anywhere without at least trying to work out any problems.
Cons: People will ask if you’re engaged yet, and they won’t
quit until they see a ring. Also, being comfortable in your
relationship might make you lazy as well. You still have to
maintain this great relationship, remember?
Rebound
This is the relationship you sometimes get into in
order to get over the last one. There’s nothing really good
about this one – the ghost of the relationship past keeps
messing with anything you might have with the new woman,
and you’re still confused about what you should and shouldn’t
expect. Your best bet is to let the old relationship blow completely
over before you start a new one. The same goes for any potential
girlfriends – refuse to date anyone who’s still talking about
her last boyfriend as if he’s still in her life.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2009
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