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I Just Want a Great Woman, Dammit!
Your
Online Dating Profile – How To Attract The Right Women
You’ve decided that you’re going to give Internet
dating a go. You’ve chosen a site, or even a couple of sites
that you’ll post your profile on, with the expectancy that
once women read your profile, they’ll flock to you.
What are you going to put in your profile that will make women
do that? And how can you know if your profile is going to attract
the right kind of women for you? This is tricky business because
you can’t possibly be successful if your profile makes you
look desperate or negative or if you try to portray yourself
as Superman.
Here’s what you need to do to create an attractive profile
that the kind of women you want will love:
- Be
positive. Your profile is no place for negativity about
yourself or your world.
- Post
good photos of yourself. You may not look like Matt Damon,
but that’s no reason to use
shoddy photos that are
of poor picture quality. The first thing women are going
to see
is your picture.
Make sure that it’s recent - to within a year or so -
and portrays you as pleasant, friendly and ready to meet
someone great.
You can ask a friend to take some photos (don’t be embarrassed
about this – this is serious stuff), or you can find
a good candid photo of you that was taken when you were
in your element
– relaxed and happy.
- Take
time to outline your favorite pastimes, the most important
things in life, what you do
for fun, and who
you’re looking
for in a woman. Do your best to sound unique.
Everyone likes having dinner with that special someone
and cuddling by the fire. But does everyone like mediating
on the
beach, or researching the origins of lost languages?
Those are the things that set you apart. And these
are the things
that will spark the interest of the kind of women you
want to date.
- Don’t
try to make yourself into someone you’re not. Be you. You
have unique and valuable qualities,
so
highlight those.
Don’t try to portray yourself as a different person
just because you think that might be more attractive.
- Spelling
and grammar - these are two words that you need to keep
foremost in your mind before publishing
your dating
profile. Run your profile through spell/grammar
check, and have a friend proofread it to make sure it sounds
right. You
can use a bit of slang – your profile doesn’t have
to
sound terribly formal, but it shouldn’t be a nightmare
to read, either.
- Don’t
write a novel, but don’t make your profile too short, either.
You can give your
prospective
dates a
good overview
of your life. This will hopefully spark some
interest in her and compel her to find out the details.
Use these six tips to creating an online profile that will
bring out your best qualities and spark the interest of the
right kind of women. Incorporate these guidelines into your
profile writing, and you’ll have a much better chance of finding
love, or at least the kind of dates you want through the Internet
dating scene!
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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