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Boredom:
How To Spice Up Your Dates
Boredom is a killer in a dating relationship.
If she’s bored with you or your dating routine, she’s going
to lose interest. There’s a reason why women like to date bad
boys, at least for awhile.
It’s
because bad boys spice things up. They’re exciting to
be around (until they get obnoxious). You, as a nice guy, can
spice up your dating routine and keep things very fun and interesting
for her without having to turn yourself into someone you don’t
want to be, and she doesn’t want you to be either.
Just because you both enjoyed dinner and a movie on dates
number one and two, doesn’t mean she’s going to enjoy dinner
and movie dates three through infinity. You have to come up
with some interesting things to do that keep a sense of variety
and even a bit of unpredictability in the relationship.
It will keep some mystery going and that’s something she’ll
find attractive. It’s easy to stay out of a dating rut. All
you have to do is put some thought into things and use your
imagination a bit. Here are some ideas for interesting and
fun dates to get you started:
- Make
a list of all the things you know she’s interested in and
likes to do and use that to come up with fun date ideas.
If she’s a fitness freak, you can go hiking, rock climbing,
biking or swimming.
If she loves the water, pack a picnic and head for the beach
or a nearby stream – just sit there and enjoy nature
and each other. If she’s into cooking, have an at home, “make
a romantic
dinner together” date. If she loves gardens and gardening,
take her to a nearby arboretum for an afternoon.
- Invite
a couple who are friends of hers to go on a double date
without her knowing.
- Go
on an all-out adventure once in awhile. Go white water
rafting or for a helicopter flight,
or even something
less expensive and potentially scary, but equally as
fun.
- Instead
of a movie, hit the local comedy club, go to a concert,
play or a coffee house that features
up and coming blues vocalists
- or head to the downtown festival.
- Movies
are fine sometimes and so is dinner out – just don’t make
it (or
anything else) your only
date
option.
If you’ve been dating for awhile, it’s going to be up to her
to come up with ideas sometimes, too. But that doesn’t let
you off the hook for using your imagination to keep things
fun.
You can always ask your friends and family (and hers) for
ideas. If you’re aware of the things the two of you have in
common and what she especially enjoys, it’ll be easy to know
how to stay out of a rut and keep things spicy.
You can make almost anything into a date if it’s something
that you’re both interested in – even going to the gym or to
a political rally. Don’t limit yourself to what passes for
a date. See the potential in everything and you’ll never find
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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