KissMeGoodnight
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I Just Want a Great Woman, Dammit!
How
Do I End a First Date?
You’ve had your first date, and it’s coming
to an end. Suppose you like her and would like to continue
dating her - how should you end this first date? You might
be wondering about a kiss versus a handshake and how to set
yourself up for another date.
You may also be wondering if she likes you and wants to go
out again, too. Assuming that you have both had fun, you can
end the first date on a high note and set the foundation for
the next date. Here are some tips:
- If
you’re dropping her off at home, walk her to her door.
Tell her that you’ve had a great time and that you really
enjoyed
her company. If you think she had an equally good time,
tell her that you would like to call her in a few days
and get together
again soon (if she says “okay,” make sure you call when
you say you will).
- If
you met somewhere for your date and are leaving separately,
walk her to her car and do the same thing. Hold her
car
door open for her and tell her what a great time you had.
- If
she’s giving you the right signals, you can try for a kiss,
but if you’re unsure, don’t risk it. She will still
like
you if you don’t kiss her – in fact she might like
you better, thinking that you’re a perfect gentleman.
By not kissing her,
you’re also leaving her with a bit of a mystery.
- Above
all, make sure you end the date on a high note with you
escorting her to her door or car and
letting
her know how
much you enjoyed the date. Ask if you can call
in a day or two and then make sure you follow through.
What if the date didn’t go so well? What if you think she’s
okay, but you don’t intend to ask her out again? Don’t make
the blunder of saying “I’ll call you.” That’s the absolute
wrong thing to do. Try these tips for ending a not-so-great
first date:
- Remember
to be a gentleman. You can still walk her to her
door or to her car and make sure she gets in safely.
- Tell
her that you enjoyed meeting her and try to think of
something you talked about that you can mention, like
“I hope your job interview goes well on Monday. Good luck!”
Leave things
on a positive note.
- If
she seems like she wants a kiss, offer a hug at the most.
- If
she says, “Call me,” or, “Let’s get together again soon,”
let her down gently by saying something like,
“I’ve had a really
nice time, but I don’t think we’re a romantic match.”
She might look disappointed and she might even
seem a bit angry, but
it’s better than lying.
It’s easy to end a first date with someone you want to see
again, and it’s not really too bad learning how to end a first
date with someone you haven’t any interest in seeing again.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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