KissMeGoodnight
Article Series: Nice Guy Dating
I Just Want a Great Woman, Dammit!
Where
Do I Find a Good Woman?
You’re
on the prowl for a nice, cute, fun woman to date. Where are you going to find her? You’re a nice
guy, so maybe you think the bar scene is a bad idea – it may
or may not be, we’ll get to that later.
When it comes to finding women to date, you have to be a bit
creative and look for opportunities wherever they might arise,
at the bar and elsewhere. Sometimes guys get lucky and are
introduced to nice dateable women through friends or business
associates.
Even though you might end up not liking the woman, people
who know you have a pretty good idea of your personality and
who might be a good fit, so if someone tries to play Cupid
and fix you up with someone they know, give it a shot. The
worst that could happen is that you won’t like each other.
No harm done. And, best cast scenario, you could meet someone
who you really do enjoy being around.
Don’t forget the opportunities that sound more like a sitcom
side-story, like meeting a woman at the coffee house while
waiting for your morning brew, or at the Laundromat, the grocery
store, the gym or in line at the bank.
If you see someone you think is attractive, smile
and say, “hi.” Who cares if you’re dripping with sweat from your workout
or wearing your best business suit? If a woman strikes up a
conversation with you, don’t shy away – talk to her. It could
turn into something, and if it doesn’t, you got some practice
anyway.
Depending on the type of work you do for a living, you may
have many opportunities to meet women through your job. Some
companies frown on dating among their employees, but there’s
no harm in flirting a little, and if you’re not risking your
job, you may find that there are plenty of single women at
work.
Be
on the lookout for eye contact and smiles. If you have
a job that requires you to travel a lot, you might meet someone
on a flight, or at the hotel bar (a good place to go and unwind
after a day full of meetings).
Don’t forget your hobbies. This is a great way to meet women
with whom you have things in common. Join clubs or take classes
related to your interests. Better yet, sign up for something
you’re interested in, but haven’t yet tried. This gives you
a chance to meet new people, and do something new at the same
time.
You can meet nice women at the bar on Saturday night. Sometimes
women are out having a drink with friends to celebrate a birthday
or promotion – there’s nothing wrong with that, and if she’s
there, it doesn’t mean she’s always there.
Just don’t think of the bar as your only dating pool. And
if she’s had enough drinks to make her dance on the table,
or sit on your lap even though you just met, she’s probably
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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