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Article Series: Nice Guy Dating
I Just Want a Great Woman, Dammit!
The
Women’s Movement & Dating
Today’s woman doesn’t need you. And while
that might be a real shocker, trust me, this is a good thing.
It used to be that women, at least some women, looked for a
man to take care of them, pay their bills and give them the
lifestyle they wanted.
The assumption was that the man took care of the woman and
she kept the house clean and went shoe shopping. This isn’t
the case any longer, and that’s a very good thing. Women today
are much more independent.
Most are completely capable of fending for themselves in the
big, bad world, so they don’t need you to pay their bills and
look after them. The reason this is such a good thing is that
most women you’ll run across in your dating endeavors are interested
in finding love and partnership rather than status or a sugar
daddy.
If you have money, that’s great, but she’s probably more interested
in how that will help the two of you in your life partnership
than in whether or not you’ll be giving her a yacht for her
next birthday.
Many women today are perfectly capable of buying their own
yachts, and even those who aren’t can handle themselves financially.
This is the product of women waiting longer to think seriously
about marriage.
They’re getting their educations out of the way and starting
careers. They’re investing their money and have learned that
they can handle things even if they don’t have a man to provide
for them.
You’re likely to come across lots of women like this as you
date. They’re not necessarily women’s libbers, but they have
learned that they’re responsible for their own life successes
and that they can provide for themselves.
They still want to form lasting, equitable and loving partnerships
with great guys, but they aren’t looking for someone to save
them. When you’re dating a woman like this, it’s pretty important
to avoid taking a patronizing tone with them.
If you’re interested in being with a smart, savvy, self-confident
woman who can handle her life and who is looking for a great
partner to share life with, the women’s movement is definitely
on your side.
In your dating endeavors, you’re likely to come across both
types of women – the ones that need you and the one’s that
don’t. Today’s woman is looking for love, not someone to provide
for her. Because of this, you can have an increased level of
confidence that she likes you for you – not your cash, your
house, or the fact that you have a cool car.
So if you’re a nice guy who’s been worrying because you drive
a clunker or your apartment is an efficiency, don’t let it
cause too much anxiety. More often than not, she’s looking
at what’s inside, not what you can provide.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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