KissMeGoodnight Article Series: Nice Guy Dating
I Just Want a Great Woman, Dammit!

How Does a Nice Guy Get The Girl?

So, Mister Nice Guy, let’s do this: you don’t have to be a jerk, a player or a bad boy to get the girl. You might need to learn some things along the way though. What you need to know right now is that there are nice, beautiful, fun-loving, sexy, intelligent, exciting women out there that are perfect for you.

They’re looking for a good man. Someone who has a grip on reality and knows how to handle himself - that’s important to a woman. If your love life has been less-than-stellar lately, that doesn’t mean it has to stay that way.

If you’re getting the wrong kind of dates or no dates at all, let’s do something about that! You can take action and take control of the situation, and that doesn’t mean that you have to turn into a jerk to do it.

Maybe you’re getting back into the dating scene. You’ve recently ended a long-term relationship. Maybe you’re gun-shy. That’s okay. But you can’t stay away from dating forever – not if you want a good, healthy relationship with a great person.

Whatever your situation, you’re going to get back on track. You can learn to incorporate some of those bad boy traits into your own personality without becoming a complete jackass and compromising your beliefs.

You want to do this because women like to be (mildly) surprised and a taste of the unexpected is fun – as long as you know how to do it. Bad boys aren’t afraid to take risks. Maybe it’s because they have no conscience, but for you, it’ll be because you learn how to step outside of your comfort zone and go about dating from a new perspective.

Once you meet the women you want, you’ll begin developing great dating relationships. You don’t have to have deep pockets, a black belt, or a PhD. You need to learn to use your own uniquely great qualities, and you need to develop confidence in yourself as a man who knows what he wants and knows how to get it.

Waiting for the perfect woman to appear at your doorstep is an ineffective way to get a date, much less find your life partner. So is going the player route. You can learn the right way to get what you want while preserving your sense of self. Now that’s valuable, and it damn well does work.

So, get the heck out there and find yourself a girl!

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KissMeGoodnight.com : 2008