KissMeGoodnight
Article Series: Nice Guy Dating
I Just Want a Great Woman, Dammit!
Nice
Guys Seek Nice Girls -
Defining Yourself & Her
We all know that just like there are men who
will sleep with any woman, any time, for any reason, there
are also women like that. Certainly, who you sleep with, and
for what reason is personal - and I’m not here to pass judgment.
But again, if you’re reading this, it’s probably because you’re
a decent guy who’s looking for a decent girl who isn’t into
tossing back a few shots and going home with the first guy
she sees through her beer (or shot) goggles.
So,
what are you looking for in a woman? As a nice guy looking
for a nice girl, it’s extremely important for you to have an
idea of what you want. To find out who you’re looking for,
it’s best to start with yourself.
Some say that you need someone who is your opposite; others
say you need someone who’s a lot like you. The truth is probably
somewhere in between. We need contrast, but we also need things
in common.
Take
some time to think about what’s important to you. If
being filthy rich is important to you, don’t pick a simple-living
girl who has a problem with people who live a lifestyle of
the rich and famous.
Likewise, if your favorite thing to do in the whole world
is camp in the mountains, you might want to find a girl who
at least likes being outdoors part of the time, not a whiny
woman who can’t get her hands dirty or plug in her hair-dryer
on a weekend campout.
You need to define your own values before you can create your
dream girl. Maybe you value spirituality. Or health and fitness.
Or education, or adventure and risk-taking.
You can learn a lot about who you’re looking for by defining
your own values. Remember though, you don’t need to find someone
just like you. In fact, it’s probably better if you don’t.
Back to the question, “What are you looking for in a woman?”
Is she:
- Spiritual/Religious?
- Adventuresome?
- A
Homebody?
- Excited
About Having Kids?
- Athletic?
- Family
Oriented?
- Self-sufficient/Independent?
- Feisty?
- Sweet?
- Great
at Poker/Charades/Volleyball/Building a Campfire?
- Lazy
on Saturday Mornings?
- Intelligent?
- Quiet
and Reserved?
- Boisterous?
You get the idea. Now go define your perfect woman, keeping
in mind that your she probably won’t have all of the qualities
you think you want, but you might not match all on her list,
either.
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