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Step 2: How To Make Yourself Look Like A Million Dollars

Nobody is perfect in this world but that does not mean we cannot try to look our best. There is absolutely nothing wrong in giving nature a helping hand. Work on your image, work on your profile, and work on your appearance.

Many people go by the philosophy, “this is me, whether you like it or not it’s your problem. I am not going to change.” Well, nobody is asking you to change, but what are you trying to do? Scare people off?

Well, the fact is, such statements are just a manifestation of your own insecurity. We all have a certain degree of insecurity, some people more than others. It is this insecurity that makes us sound gruff and uncaring when it comes to improving our appearances.

Come on, what are you afraid of? I’ll give you a tip. Whatever you are afraid of, others are afraid of the same thing. In this world, most people are neither for us nor against us. They are thinking about themselves.

Presenting oneself is an area that requires a lot of work, but surprisingly, this is the one area which people tend to neglect the most. Most of us have a laid back attitude when it comes to painting a picture about ourselves. When it comes to presenting yourself, you really have some work to do.

If I knew you on a more personal basis I would have loved to help you to chalk out a profile of yourself that would be as impressive as possible. But of course, it is impossible to know you on a one to one basis.

But you do not have to worry because I have done a lot of study in this regard and once you follow my directions, you can indeed come up with that dream profile.

The Dream Profile

Preparing a profile take time. It is something that should be viewed in all seriousness. Please do not treat the subject lightly. Imagine that you are preparing for a job; wouldn’t you spend a lot of time getting your resume ready?

Well, most of us take up jobs for how long, four or five years? And how about a relationship, definitely we do not embark on a relationship with the expectation that it will last for just a couple of years.

We have to understand that a relationship is really worth much more than a job, because it is probably the most important decision in your life. So now let us discuss ways in which you can spruce up your profile.

You can, of course, get a professional to do the job for you since it saves you the effort. You may have to dish out a small amount but it could be worth it. There are many people who have qualms about including a picture in their profile. Well, I don’t want to press the issue. It certainly does look better to have a picture in your profile, but due to privacy issues you can refrain from including a picture. You will get A LOT fewer replies or interactions though.

The Face In The Mirror

Now, coming to the picture as such, if you are posting a picture of yourself, for heavens sake, post a decent picture. It should be a recent one and please do not make any compromises about the quality. Get a professional to do the job for you and with the digital cameras of today, they can do a very impressive job.

At the same time, do work on your expression before the photograph is taken. Stand in front of your mirror and try out various expressions until you get something that you think is best for you. And remember that it has to be a picture of you smiling. You should not have the classic hang dog expression, or the “butter-will-not-melt-in-my-mouth expression”. Smile, it costs you nothing and it really lights up a person’s face.

Now, the first thing that you should do is take out a pencil and paper and write down the raw details about yourself. By raw details, I am referring to things like your age, your height and your weight.

This is the skeleton of which we are going to work on. And when we have added enough flesh and blood to this backbone, why even you will be impressed by your profile! But first let us steer clear of certain pitfalls into which most people fall.

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