KissMeGoodnight
eRomance Series:
Online Dating & Personal Ads:
Sizzling Secrets To Success
( 17 pages )
4 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lying
1. As discussed
earlier, we are not going to resort to singles’ chat rooms
dedicated specifically to online dating. Instead we will be
in chat rooms of specific interest. So one very effective
way of finding out if a person is lying would be to ask the
person very pointed questions about the area of interest.
If the person fumbles or gives vague answers then you do not
have to waste your time on such a person.
2. Another thing
that you could do is that from the moment you first make contact,
jot down whatever details the person chooses to reveal to
you and in subsequent encounters nonchalantly question the
person about the details, if there is a contradiction in the
two details then you can be as sure as pat that the person
is lying.
3. Ask the person
seemingly general questions but which in fact should have
a very definite purpose, for example ask the person what he
or she is looking for in such a relationship. Note down the
answer. After two or three encounters again repeat the question
and see whether the two answers match.
4. You could
try pretending that you have chatted with the person before
and innocently ask the person if he or she is such and such
person (make something up) and try offering compliments to
the person like, “I really enjoyed chatting with you the other
day. You were perfectly charming…” and so on. If the person
falls for cheap flattery like this, then obviously he or she
makes it a hobby to chat with people under various identities.
And so the chatting goes on until the person really grows
on you. When you feel that you can really trust the person,
you may try giving the person your telephone number. Remember
that this too is a giant leap towards building a relationship
so it’s better that you be sure than sorry.
The safest thing
you can do about telephone numbers is to mutually exchange
it preferably at the same time, so that neither party is at
a disadvantage. It’s really no big deal, you can afford to
tell the person that you are just being wary, the person will
understand. If he or she does not, then there is a good chance
that he or she will not understand a lot of other things as
well. In that case, dump the person.
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