KissMeGoodnight
eRomance Series:
Online Dating & Personal Ads:
Sizzling Secrets To Success
( 17 pages )
Step 1: Getting Started
Only fools rush
in where angels fear to tread.
It is always
best to approach unfamiliar territory with caution. You need
to plan before you actually go out there and start dealing
your cards. Be sure about yourself and be sure about what
you want. Just because anyone and everyone can type out whatever
they want in a chat room doesn’t mean that we have to do the
same.
The Internet
has a wonderful quality of being accessible to every one.
But this same quality attracts all kinds of people into it.
But just because a lot of people who enter a chat room have
only dirt on their minds, it doesn’t mean that everyone is
like that. If you stick to the class that you have and maintain
your poise, you can indeed get the right kind of response.
There are a
lot of nice people using the Internet, but it all depends
on what you do. Do onto others what you want them to do to
you is the golden rule that applies here. There are no rules
for the game. All are players out there. But just because
others are ruffians, it doesn’t mean that you have to be one
too. Your approach is the only thing that can get you the
kind of response that you want.
I don’t think
that it is very sensible to decide all of the sudden that
you would like to use the Internet to get a date. By just
entering a chat room and saying “I’m available” you are merely
putting yourself up for sale, and will most likely not get
the results you desire.
One point that
all of us have to understand is that in a chat room, all are
equal. Do not go by the misconception that entering a chat
room is like sauntering into a ball room dressed in your best.
Then everyone turns to stare at you and the most eligible
person (read that as the sexiest person of the opposite sex)
catches your eye and makes his or her way towards you.
That kind of
thing happens only on James Bond movies and we all know that
James Bond never goes in for a serious relationship. It’s
all fun and games for him.
Where Do You Start?
The first tip
we would like to give you is NOT to go straight away into
a singles’ chat room and try to find somebody who would interest
you. All of us know that most of such chat rooms are virtually
flooded with people who have only one thing on their mind
- sex. So, no matter what you ask for, it always ends up in
that and the purpose is defeated. You will never get the kind
of person who kind of matches your interests and tastes.
Sometimes it
can really get quite infuriating. Everything starts off well.
You are having a nice conversation with a person and warming
up when all of the sudden, the topic moves towards the three
letter word. The you let out a sigh and either have to bar
messages from that person and risk the person bad mouthing
you in a public chat room. Usually you have to leave the chat
room all together.
In other words,
it is the easiest thing to get someone to sleep with you but
if you are looking for something more enduring, like a partner
for life, then you are going to have to be a little more patient.
The pick of the litter is not easy to find. But you do find
it; it is going to be worth the effort.
So instead of
going into a singles’ chat room, what you could do is, you
could try the whole thing out from a different angle. You
could try working backwards.
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