10
Tips for a Blind Date
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
In many ways blind dating is no different
than any other type of dating. The basic elements of dating
still exist but you do need to exercise more caution in a blind
date. Like any other date you want a blind date to go well
so that you can ensure yourself a second date. However, while
it is important to exercise caution in all types of dating
it’s even more important in blind dating. Another factor unique
to blind dating is getting set up with a great date. While
this may not always be in your hands there are some ways that
you can take some initiative in this area.
Like
any date the key to a blind date is setting yourself up
for a second date. Arranging a fun date and being interesting
to your date are two keys to achieving a second date. In making
conversation on a blind date, it is important to take an interest
in what your date has to say. Doing this will let them know
that you are interested in getting to know them better. Also,
try speaking about subjects that you really enjoy. This will
make you not only sound more natural but will also make you
sound more interesting.
Dressing
to impress is also critical to a blind date. In meeting
someone for the first time you will want to ensure that you
make a good first impression. You don’t always know how much
a blind date already knows about you but it doesn’t hurt to
show up for the date looking as though you have put a great
deal of effort into your appearance. You’re date will appreciate
the effort and be flattered by your going out of your way to
impress them.
One key factor to blind dating is to exercise
caution in meeting your date. Even if you are being set up by a close friend you
can’t be positive that they know the person they are setting
you up with very well. It’s best to set up an initial meeting
in a well lit and populated location. Never agree to meet someone
you don’t know at a secluded location. While your blind date
may be a wonderful person with no intentions of hurting you,
it’s best to exercise caution on a blind date.
Another
factor unique to the blind dating situation is getting
yourself set up with a great date. You may have several friends
that are interested in setting you up with a friend or relative
whom they think is just perfect for you but try not to agree
to go on a blind date that is set up by someone who doesn’t
know you very well. If they don’t know you well, then don’t
trust them to choose a date for you. However, if you have a
friend who does know you very well, don’t hesitate to drop
hints about what you are looking for in a date. Those who know
you best are most likely to set you up with a compatible blind
date.
Making
an honest effort to have a good time on your date is
another tip that can lead to a successful blind date. If you
go into a blind date with the attitude that things won’t work
out, you will most likely unconsciously put a damper on the
date. Your date may sense your lack of enthusiasm and in turn
won’t be inspired to put an effort into having a good time
either.
Another tip for blind dating is to be
sure to end the date appropriately. Many people may recommend that when going on
a blind date you have a backup plan in place such as having
a friend call you shortly after the date starts to give you
an excuse to leave if things aren’t going well but doing this
just isn’t right. Instead extend your blind date the same common
courtesy that you would any other date and be willing to complete
the entire date. If neither party is having a good time, it’s
acceptable to end the date early and just agree that you weren’t
compatible but don’t be too quick to give up on the date. Also,
at the conclusion of the date be honest about your feelings
towards your date. If things just didn’t work out, don’t be
afraid to let them know instead of offering empty promises
of future dates. However, if you truly enjoyed your date, let
your partner know and take the opportunity to suggest a second
date.
Bringing
a friend along is another tip for blind dating. This
is helpful for a couple of reasons. First if your blind date
had any malicious intentions towards you, having a friend along
is likely to spoil his plan. Secondly a friend may be able
to ease the tension and break the ice by getting the conversation
started. While the addition of an extra person on a date may
seem awkward, having them there can provide emotional spirit
and an additional comfort level.
Even if the date is going well, another
tip for blind dating is to end the date after 2-3 hours. This is an adequate amount
of time for two people to get to know each other on a date
and determine whether or not they would be interested in a
second date. Blind dates that last longer than this often reach
a point where the couple runs out of things to talk about and
the date can stagnate leaving a negative feeling at the end
of the date. Keeping the date short can help you to end the
date on a positive note and will leave you with more to talk
about on a second date.
Being
yourself is important on any date but it’s critical
on a blind date. A blind date deals with someone who does not
know you so it’s important to give them a true sense of yourself
on your date. You may get away with pretending to be something
you are not on the first date but it may lead to trouble in
future dates as your date realizes you were phony on the first
date.
Finally, treat
your blind date with the same courtesy that
you would any other date. You may not know the person you are
dating but it is important to arrive on time, be polite and
put an honest effort into the date. Your blind date is just
as deserving of these courtesies as any other person you have
dated. A blind date is no excuse to let your manners lapse
and mistreat your date.
For the most part blind dating does not differ from any other
dating situation. However, there are a few things unique to
blind dating of which you should be aware. Most importantly
it is critical that you not put yourself in danger by agreeing
to meet a blind date in a secluded location. Another unique
aspect of the blind date is that you are often set up by a
friend or family member so you have the opportunity to learn
what they think would be a suitable match for you. Beyond the
specifics related to blind dating, the rules of regular dating
still hold true. If you are polite, genuine, fun and interested
in your date you will be likely to score a second date.
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