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8 Ways To Get Over the Person Who Broke Your Heart
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
Getting over someone whom you devoted all
your time for so many months or even years is no walk in the
park. Undergoing the process of denial, depression and anger
is natural but sulking in your room for longer than necessary
while watching the whole world passes you by isn’t healthy
anymore. Wake up! You need to move on.Here are few tips on
how to start picking up those pieces down to the fixing your
broken heart.
1.
Cry.
Face
the fact that you’re sad and depressed. There’s no point
of hiding it to the world most especially to yourself.
Lock yourself in your room and cry. Sob or even wail all
you want, it’s alright. Just cry to let out all the heartaches
you are feeling. We who have been hurt before know it hurts
so badly and the pain is so unbearable. You can let it out
by all means. You might get puffy and swollen eyebags but
at
least you’re not stressing your way to sickness. Remember,
it is healthy to express your anger and hurt. You can vent
your feelings and relieve the tension and stress you feel
inside.
2.
Lend Some Ear.
When
in pain and confused, it is always advisable to have someone
around. Pouring over your sentiments
with a friend over a bottle or a cup of coffee is a great
catharsis. Who cares if you have told the story a hundred
times already
to your friends? As long as the anguish is still there just
keep on talking. It will soothe your soul.
3.
Don’t Listen to Love Songs.
As
we all know, love songs tend to stir our emotional side,
so be wary and don’t let yourself
indulge into listening to love songs when you’re broken hearted.
You’ll end up feeling like a complete loser and that’s the
last thing you want to happen.
4.
Keep Yourself Busy.
Do
the things that you neglected to do because you were busy
with someone else before. Finish your
project that you left idle for almost a month now. Open that
novel where your bookmark has been on the same chapter for
already a year. Do all the things you’ve been dying to do
before but just didn’t have the time. Organize an out of
town trip
with your friends or try hosting a party. Be with happy people
and absorb their vibes.
5.
Reminisce.
This
may sound weird but is sometimes effective. If avoiding all
the places you two have been and all the things
both of you were doing before didn’t come up with a good
result, then might as well try this one. No, reminiscing
doesn’t mean
that you have to punish yourself by reliving the memories
you once shared, it’s just a way of making yourself immune
to all
the pains he has caused and for you to face the reality.
Remembering the good times you have spent together will somehow
make you
realize that life isn’t bad after all. Believe me, in time,
you will just find yourself laughing at all the things that
happened and it will somehow make you proud also because
you have overcome them all.
6.
Start a Diary.
Start
writing in a journal and make it your new best friend. Jot
down all the dreadful things that happened
to you and purge out all the things that’s on your mind,
no holds barred. Confess to your new best friend how despicable
your boyfriend is and vow to forget him the soonest time
possible.
7.
Clean up the Clutters.
It’s
time to pick up the pieces and clean up the clutters of your
once shattered life. A closing
doesn’t necessarily mean a shut down; it’s just a phase that
everyone needs to undergo to pave way for a new start. Keep
away from your sight all the things that bring back memories
of you together. Put them in a box and make sure you’ll never
get a glimpse of it to avoid temptation to look at them again.
And when I mean keep away from sight, just toss it aside
first, not return to the giver.
8.
Pamper yourself.
Head
to the spa, gym or even to the parlor for a complete makeover.
Enough of the sulking days, it’s unfair
for you to see him happy while you are still there in your
room wallowing in despair. Give yourself a treat and stop
looking miserable. You wouldn’t want to look wretched when
the hands
of fate suddenly give you the person who will completely
ease your broken heart, would you?
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2007
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