7
Ways To
Wow Your Date on the First Date
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
Do you still recall the time your first date
turned out a disaster? How about the second date or maybe the
third one? You underwent several first dates with so many people
but they don’t call you after that first night out. Now, you
can stop moping in your room worrying that you’ll end up as
a spinster or a bachelor. There are many ways on how to keep
your date hooked up on you. Below are just some of the things
to keep in mind to let that phone ring right after the first
rendezvous.
1.
Dress for Comfort.
The first rule when going out on a date,
especially for first timers, is being comfortable. Start off
with your dress. Even if it is better to create a good impression
on your date by slipping into your slick black dress and stilettos,
you won’t earn a good mark if you keep on checking out your
behind for possible panty lines. Dress for comfort and not
just for a good impression. If you really find it awkward to
put on something girly from the usual tees and sneakers you
wear everyday, forget about the pointy shoes and opt for a
flat pair of sandals or shoes for a stylish effect sans the
pain in the legs. Before anything else, consider the place
where you will be going. It is safer to ask your date where
he plans to take you. You wouldn’t want to be wearing a chic
dress just to watch her favorite basketball game in a stadium,
right?
2.
Watch Your Manners.
There
is nothing more disgusting than the sight of your date stuffing
food in his mouth one after
the other. One major turn off is also a quick case of make
up and lipstick retouch in the table. It’s not a crime to
excuse yourself for a while to go the powder room and do
your deed.
It isn’t that you need to act like a princess when dining
out with your date; just be conscious enough to know the
do’s and
don’ts. Laughing your heart out when your date tells something
which you find really funny is alright, but not to the point
of spewing your food all over the table, more so on your
date. Be natural, but be refined.
3.
Be Interactive.
Bear
in mind that the first date is always the initial step in
getting to know each other so grab all
the opportunity you have to know the other person. Don’t
just sit there staring at your date the whole evening pretending
to listen while you stifle a yawn. Talk. There are no rules
or standard topics to talk about on a first date. Topics
like
embarrassing experience during your grade school or how miserable
you were when your cat died are alright as long as you see
that your date is interested and doesn’t feel awkward with
the topic. Seeing that you can talk anything under the sun
without being a show off gives an impression that you are
a spontaneous person, a plus factor.
4.
Have Some Sense of Humor.
There
was never a study that humor kills so why stop the jokes?
Just remember to keep it
clean. Keep the ambiance light as much as possible to avoid
tension in the air. The only way to avert the anxieties is
to let out a few laughs by telling a funny story. Nevertheless,
if you are not a born comedian, laughing to some of his jokes
and funny stories usually do the trick. Guys love it when
you laugh at their jokes.
5.
Be Yourself.
The
top secret to making people like you is to show them the
real you. Your date may find your boyish antics
weird but he may find it cute thinking that you’re a cowboy
who can ride with his jokes, activities and someone he can
tag along with the guys later.
6.
Relax.
Butterflies
in the stomach, mice running in your heart and the nauseous
feeling are normal when going on a first
date with someone. However, if you do not loosen up, the
worse case that could happen is you won’t be able to say
any sane
thing to your date. Relax and remind yourself that you are
on a date to enjoy, not to be stressed.
7.
Be Appreciative.
Before
the night ends, take time to thank your date for spending
time with you. You don’t have fret,
a kiss on a first date is not a must. On the other hand,
if you really enjoyed the evening, a peck on the cheek is
just
fine to show your appreciation followed up by a short text
message or phone call later to thank him again for the wonderful
night.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2007
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