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Ideas for a First Date
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
A first date can be a very stressful event
but with careful planning and by choosing the right location,
you can ease the tension that normally prevails on
a first date. Whether you prefer dates filled with meaningful conversation
and chance to get to know your date or just an opportunity
to have fun without delving too deep into your date’s personality,
there is a first date location that is just perfect for your
dating style and personality.
Those
who enjoy pleasant conversation and an opportunity to learn
as much about their date as possible should choose a
quiet first date location that is conducive to conversation.
Coffee houses, libraries or even public parks can be a wonderful
opportunity to have meaningful conversations while on a first
date. All of these locations allow the couple the luxury of
a quiet atmosphere that is perfect for conversation combined
with an environment that is filled with other types of activity
in case the conversation hits a lull. A date at a coffee
house usually includes coffee and dessert so there is always the
opportunity to comment on the dessert selection or even the
décor if the conversation begins to stall. A library is just full of conversation topics. When the conversation
starts to run dry, simply wander down any of the aisles lined
with books and share your opinions on different authors and
theories. A public park is great location for a first date.
The surroundings are relatively quiet which lends itself well
to conversation but you and your date could also spend time
people watching.
Dinner
and a movie is always a great first date idea. This
type of date is especially beneficial to the first time dater
who is worried about keeping a conversation going throughout
the date. What makes this date so perfect is that the movie
is essentially a two hour break from the conversation and once
the movie is over and you are free to chat with your date again,
you have a built in conversation starter. You’ve both just
seen the movie so you know that is one thing that you can discuss.
Talking about your opinions of the movie or the plot of the
movie are a good way for two people who are a little on the
shy side to get to know each other because it gives you some
insight into your date’s personality and allows them to understand
you a little better without the conversation getting too personal.
A
first date that involves playing some kind of game is also
very popular. You could go bowling or visit a video arcade.
These are popular date ideas because keeping the focus on the
game instead of the date leaves less opportunity for the couple
to run out of things to talk about or experience awkward moments.
It’s also a great first date idea because the spirit of competition
gives the date a lighthearted appeal and does not place too
much emphasis on conversation. This relieves the daters of
the pressure of trying to impress their date. Instead they
have the opportunity to let their true personality shine through
which is a much better way to get to know someone.
A
first date to a museum or zoo is also a great idea. These
locations provide so much to see and do that it is virtually
impossible to run out of things to do or talk about. It is
also a great way to get to know your date and understand their
personality a little better. Their natural reactions to the
exhibits in the museum or the animals in the zoo can say a
lot about the person you are dating. For example if you have
several pets, you many find that the date who is disgusted
by the animals in the zoo is not as good of a prospect as the
date who longs to reach out and touch the animals. Or the date
who dreamily admires the abstract painting may be more of a
free thinker than the date who wonders why the artist didn’t
use straight lines and realistic features for the painting.
These are the types of observations that can help you determine
if you are interested in a second date or not.
First dates are always a little bit awkward but the right
location can help to reduce the awkwardness and put both parties
at ease so that their natural personalities can shine through.
A chance to get to know each other, coupled with the opportunity
for fun makes the first date ideas in this location a good
idea.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com : 2005
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