How
to Spot a Liar
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
They
are everywhere, and no matter how angel-faced and innocent
looking your partner may be, chances are, he might
be cheating on you. You can choose to confront the situation
at the onset, or let it blow over and worry about the consequences
later. However, more likely than not, you won’t like how things
are going to turn out.
Don’t allow yourself to be hoodwinked. Read about the telltale
signs below and you’re sure to find out if your sweetie is
betraying you or not.
Being
Overly Defensive.
When
you question a guilty person of his whereabouts the previous
night, more often than not,
he will start throwing accusations at you, like telling
you how possessive you are even though it was just the first
time you dropped the question. His mission is to put you
on a tense
mode so the attention will be veered away from him. Thus,
start to be wary when your guy suddenly reacts violently
with a simple
a question as “So, what were you doing last night?”
Being
Paranoid.
Some
people feed their partners’ paranoia just to conceal their
own infidelities. He will either accuse
you of seeing someone else, for you not to get the idea that
he’s really the one fooling you. So the next time he starts
pointing the finger at you, reply with “Why are you always
paranoid, are you sure I have no reasons to be either?” Then
see how he reacts. Guilty persons will be taken aback with
that kind of question.
Being
Over Confident.
By
and large, a show of over confidence usually denotes bluffing.
It is because some people think that
by acting confident, they can make others believe that they
have the power and credibility in everything they say or
do. Wrong; because if someone is really certain about what
he says
or does, there’s no need for him to act all-knowing.
Catch
the Fish Through It’s Mouth.
Although
the greatest of liars have already mastered the art of telling
a lie by
projecting a guiltless look and answer. There are still clue-words
to watch out for in his answers to find out if he’s really
fibbing or not. The reply “I can't explain anything about
that” when you ask him about the reason why he needs to attend
an
out of town seminar, is a sign that he is avoiding having
to give out extra information for fear of being caught. Answering “I don't remember” when you insist that he tell
you where he has been the night his cell phone was out of reach,
is a clear-cut sign that he doesn’t care to look back on his
unfaithfulness and he needs to end the conversation at once.
These replies are just some of the examples identified by a
retired Maryland State Police, Investigation and Interviewing
and Interrogation expert, in a course titled “Identifying Lies
in Disguise.”
However, these are merely indicators that a person might not
be telling the truth, so they must not be used as a sole basis
for convicting someone. Rather, use them as a signal for you
to investigate further to avoid getting duped.
Pauses
before Answering.
If
it takes forever for your guy to answer a single question
that is answerable by a simple
yes or no, then it’s time to switch that radar on. He might
still be collecting his thoughts and trying to make up stories
to fool you. Wake up and smell the coffee. It’s obvious,
even without a cheater detector, and you can automatically
sense
if he’s doing nasty things behind your back.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2007
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