Relationship
Advice for Women: Is Your Man A Loser?
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
In a perfect world, women would have no problem
finding the ideal guy. He'd be good looking has a sense of
humor, is madly in love with his significant other, and would
never try to argue back or pick a fight. However, we live in
the real world. And in this place called 'reality,' relationships
like that are rare. While there might be a number of guys out
there whom we can classify as 'decent', there are also plenty
of duds lurking about.
Here are the top identified characteristics of loser guys,
so you can steer clear of them before they come near you and
accidentally sweep you off your feet with their antics.
The Abuser
This kind of guy is bad news. He can start out as a gentleman
and tell you he'll never do or say anything to hurt you again
after he does. But, the truth of the matter is, he won't change.
If a guy has a nasty temper and begins to show inclinations
toward abuse (either physically or verbally), you should get
out of that relationship at once.
Abusive guys start out nice and you probably won't be able
to spot them until they're in abuse mode. This usually comes
out when your relationship turns serious and he starts to become
possessive and aggressive. If he has hit you once, don't believe
him when he says he won't do so again. He will and you should
leave.
The Meantime Guy
Or, as most women like to call him, the "I Have No Idea
What I Saw In Him" guy. He may seem all right at first.
That is, you started going out with him because he seemed like
a nice person and he was available. However, when it boils
down to the nitty gritty of the relationship itself, you discover
that your relationship really has no strong foundation. You
have nothing to talk about and share no interests in common.
Worse, you cringe when people see you together in public. It's
not really him that's the problem. It's the basis of the relationship
- very shallow.
Why are you still with this guy, again? End it now.
The Self-Absorbed Guy
This guy only thinks of himself and does not care about your
opinions. He believes that you will never equal him and that
you should just pay attention to fulfilling HIS needs (making
yours only secondary and, therefore, unimportant). He does
not want you to share his level and it will be futile to try
to make him think in your favor. You're worth more than this
kind of treatment. You should be with someone who shares the
limelight with you and listens to what you have to say.
The Suddenly Distant Guy
Girls should watch out for this kind of guy because he can
never stay put in one place, or in one relationship, for too
long. Sure, some guys start out great but, then, all of a sudden,
with no obvious reason, he becomes distant and acts all weird.
Slowly you grow apart. You bang your head against the wall
trying to explain his behavior and what might have triggered
it.
Often, your paranoia will lead you to believe that something
is wrong with you. There isn't. He is the problem. If he won't
share his feelings and problems with you, it's not likely that
your relationship will flourish any further. End it while it's
still bearable. You will only be dragging the occurrence of
the inevitable (a breakup) if you hold on and try to convince
yourself that things will eventually change.
Ladies, click here to learn what goes on inside a man's head. It's a woman's guide to the male mind. It's my KissMeGoodnight recommendation for you.
Guys, click here to learn what goes on inside a woman's head. It's a man's guide to the female mind. It's my KissMeGoodnight recommendation for you.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2007
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