Keep
The Flames Of Love Alive
- by KissMeGoodnight.com
An unforgettable line in the blockbuster movie
“Jerry Maguire” goes: “You complete me.” Almost everyone in
the planet would probably give their best shot in finding that
special person to make their life whole. It’s a challenge to
find the love of your life and when they find their other half,
keeping the love alive is the next hurdle. Surprisingly, it
doesn’t take much to keep the flames of love glowing:
Be
generous
Giving
a little token on ordinary days – a spray of summer flowers
or a couple of his favorite yummy treats
-- can do a lot of good in your relationship. So does keeping
the kids entertained while your partner takes a “me-time”;
offering to complete a job that he/she usually does; and
serving breakfast in bed! Why? Because it shows that you
think of your
partner as someone special. These little tokens also show
that you appreciate what he/she does. Regretfully, there
are times
when we got so used to having them around that saying “thank
you” or “please” gets forgotten in the jumble of everyday
chores. Be generous with praise too. Try this out – a little
boasting
to your common friends on how great your partner is and you’ll
find that it makes them feel ten feet tall!
Maintain
a sense of humor
Aim
for a smile or better yet a belly-laugh each day. All situations
can be fodder for a
good laugh and sharing it with your spouse makes it more
hilarious. Make good use of those jokes you got from e-mails,
text messages,
magazines and even joke books if you lack for material. Even
a heated discussion or an argument can be diffused by a little
humor. Don’t take every argument to heart! It’s not unusual
for couples to argue, but if you can just step back and cool
off, you’ll find a different way to look at situations or
find that the argument was silly in the first place.
Say
it out loud
Tell
them in every way you can how much they mean to you. Whether
you whisper it or proclaim it out
load, just say it. In today’s world of high tech communications,
the possibilities of saying what you feel are endless – you
can even broadcast it in huge billboards if so inclined.
If you’re a bit of old fashioned, right a love letter. It
will
remain with them forever.
Be
best friends
After
the blush of first love fades, feelings settle into a different
level. And nothing beats a good friendship
thru a lifetime of togetherness. So if you were lucky enough to find that special person, see
to it that you can keep the love alive and complete.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2007
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