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Article Series: Save My Relationship
Uh Oh. I Need To Save My Relationship...NOW!
Learn
How To Work On Yourself First
One
of the keys to forming and keeping a great relationship is
to work on yourself first. A breakup might be the wakeup
call you need to change some
things about yourself – perhaps you neglected the relationship,
taking it for granted.
Or maybe you ignored warning signs that the relationship was
becoming tattered at the edges and needed attention and repair.
No matter what the cause of the separation, it makes sense
that you take time to look closely at yourself before you can
determine how to mend the relationship.
Ask
yourself if the same problems threatened or ended past
relationships, if there have been others. You may be repeating
the same self-destructive patterns that helped to destroy other
associations – whether love, work, family or friends. It’s
important that you dissect what makes you tick with others
before the present relationship can be rescued.
Keep
a journal through this time of healing. Return to it
from time to time and try to pinpoint certain patterns in your
emotions and actions that keep recurring and causing possible
harm to the relationship. It’s an exciting and rewarding journey
when you begin to explore your deepest and most passionate
self. Oprah Winfrey calls it “finding your authentic self.”
Once you discover your “authentic
self,” a unique power will
be yours. It’s the power of being able to take complete control
of your life, including those emotions that sabotage relationships
– jealousy, anger, envy and other negative feelings. You’re
able to focus on positive events and people in your life and
to overcome destructive elements that threaten to cause depression,
frustration and anger.
Your authentic self will help you identify and take control
of emotions you experience from day to day. Ask yourself where
these negative emotions are coming from. It could be a past
experience as far back as your early childhood – or maybe a
recent rejection from someone you loved and respected. Don’t
let a past experience take over your present life and make
you feel less than adequate. Learn how to control it and see
it for the lie that it is.
Click
here for 50 secrets on how to have a happy,
blissful and loving relationship. It is my KissMeGoodnight
recommendation.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2009
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