KissMeGoodnight
Article Series: Seduction
How To Meet That Girl You Really, Really Want
Attracting
Women: 3 Female Personality Types
There is another principle of psychology that
you should know about and can use to your advantage. This is
the classification of personalities. You can learn what to
talk about and how to behave with women who have different
personality types.
Personality can be categorized into three types:
1.
Kinesthetic – focusing on touch.
These
women are likely to use a lot of touch-related words in their
speech. This includes
the word ‘feel’. So somebody who says ‘it feels like’ a lot
could be a kinesthetic personality. These women will react well to being touched in a friendly
way, sooner than others. You can give her a squeeze or touch
her arm – she will enjoy that and may respond by returning
your touch.
2.
Visual – focusing on sight.
These
people will say things like ‘it looks like’ and ‘I see what
you mean’. You will do well with these women by focusing
on the visual. Admire their clothing and jewelry, or point
out things you
like about the appearance and décor of the place that
you are in. She will feel that you are a like mind if you do
this.
3.
Auditory – focusing on sound and hearing.
These
people will say ‘I hear you’ and ‘did you hear about …’. To start a conversation with these women, ask what type of
music they like, or say they have a beautiful voice or a lovely
laugh. You can also do well with them if you are able to pick
up on nuances of tone of voice – which you will do naturally
if you are an auditory personality yourself.
You will have a huge advantage over other guys if you
can pick up on these personality types and respond in the right
way to them. For example, if you ask a visual type woman what
music she likes, you will probably leave her cold. But ask
her about film and you could have a great conversation that
leads to the bedroom.
In order to pick up what personality type a woman is within
a few minutes or seconds of meeting her, you will need some
practice. Start by noticing the forms of speech that your friends
use, and classifying them.
Then consider yourself. You will naturally get on fine with
women who are the same personality type as you, so it is important
to know what that is. Record a casual conversation that you
are having and analyze it, or consider other factors – do you
enjoy stroking a cat, you do love art, do you love music. Do
not decide too quickly because you probably have preconceived
ideas about what you would like to be, that may not be true.
Observe yourself as you have been observing your friends.
You will probably find that you are the same type as many
of your friends, so the next step will be to get practiced
at making friendly conversation with people of other types.
You need to learn to converse with them as if you were their
type, so that they are more attracted to you. You will probably
find these people in your place of work and in other situations
where people are more randomly grouped.
It will not come naturally to you to say ‘I feel …’ or ‘I
see what you mean’ or ‘I hear you’ if those words do not fit
your personality type. You will be uncomfortable at first,
so it is very important practice with casual acquaintances
before you start using this technique on attractive women.
After a while you may find that you are suddenly making friends
with unexpected people, you are more popular at work than you
ever dreamed possible, and the woman in the grocery store is
crazy about you – then you know it’s working, and you can get
out there and start using the technique for real.
When
you talk with a girl in the way she prefers then you will
find her opening up to you. It won’t be long before she
becomes physically attracted to you. The reason for the rapid
attraction lies in the fact that the woman you are with starts
to picture you as her soul mate subconsciously. When she begins
to see you as her soul mate, you will no longer be a stranger
to her. She feels that she has known you all her life and that
you can understand her totally.  
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