KissMeGoodnight
Article Series: Seduction
How To Meet That Girl You Really, Really Want
The
10 Secrets To Make Her Want You
Okay, so there is a woman whom you really
like and you would love to sleep with her. Check out the tips
given below which can help you to seduce her:
1.
Do not consider yourself as unattractive.
If
you feel that you are not attractive then there is no way
in which you can
make the woman find you attractive. This type of thinking
will influence your body language and the way you think.
Take some
care over your appearance so that you feel at your best,
and start telling yourself that you are attractive.
2.
Do not bore her.
There
are times when men tend to bore women without even realizing
that they are doing that. Never
talk about your work, sports or weather when you are with
a lady, unless you know that she is truly interested in the
subject.
She may listen for hours and even say she is interested just
to be polite. Then she will go home without agreeing to a
second date, and you are left wondering why. The reason is,
you fell
for her pretence of interest, and ended up boring her. If she is genuinely interested in a subject she will not just
ask questions and listen, she will have a lot to say about
it. For example: if she asks you which team you think will
win the Super Bowl, she is pretending to be interested. If
she tells you which team she thinks will win, and why, then
okay, she may be interested in football.
3.
Do not talk too much.
If
you talk constantly, you can make the lady turn her back
on you. She will either think that you
are babbling because of nervousness, or if not, she will
find you boring. Try to get her talking too. Even with the
shyest
woman you can do this if you help her to feel relaxed and
find out what she is really interested in.
4.
Never ask too many questions.
I
know it is weird when you are with a woman and have nothing
to talk about.
However, this
does not mean that you have to keep asking her questions
after questions. Asking a few questions can make a conversation
interesting
but asking too many questions will make the lady want to
run away from you. Instead of interrogating her, pick
up on hints
in what she says, that show you when she has some real feeling
about something. A good way to do this is to repeat something she has said
back to her in a questioning tone of voice. This will encourage
her to say more but it comes across as interest rather than
another question. For example:
You: “What kind of movies do you like?”
Her: “Oh, I guess … comedies mainly.”
You: “Comedies?”
Her: “Yes, like ... Meet The Parents.”
If you know that movie you now have quite a lot to talk about.
You can discuss that movie and the follow-up and think of some
similar ones that she probably likes too. Remember, you are
not just chatting to pass the time. You are building trust
by creating connections and letting her see similarities, things
that the two of you share.
With
this technique you must only repeat actual words that she
said. If you say “What kind of comedies?” then that is
another question and she may feel she is being interrogated.
5.
Avoid Yes / No Questions.
Avoid
questions that can have Yes or No as the answer, e.g. “Do
you like movies?” This can
kill
the
conversation.
6.
Do not treat a woman as a prize.
A
woman does not like the idea of being a prize or a possession.
She will not be
attracted to you if she thinks you are showing off that you
are with her, or if she suspects that you will boast about
your conquest of her to your friends.
7.
Try to interpret her body language.
Many
men do not think that it is necessary to read the body language
of the women
that they are interested in. By reading her body language
you will have some idea about whether she is interested in
you.
If she is then you can carry out your seduction plan and
if she isn’t then there are a lot of other fishes in the
sea.
8.
Flirting is the answer.
How
will a woman know that you are interested in her if you do
not give her a sign? When you
flirt with her, you indirectly let her know about your intention.
9.
Be confident.
Women
simply cannot resist men who are confident. Do not be afraid
to approach a woman because of fear of rejection.
There are always risks in life and if you do not take the
risk then you cannot reap the benefits.
10.
Make the lady feel good.
If
you want to attract and seduce a lady then it is very important
to make her feel good in your
company. If she feels happy in your company then it will
not take a long time to attract her and then seduce her.  
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