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5 Tips To Pick Up Women Online
The online dating world can sometimes seem
like a jungle of time wasters and fakes. If you want to pick
up women online and meet them for real dates that can lead
to physical action, there are some important things you need
to know.
1.
Call her by her name
Use her real first name if you know it, or her online nickname
if you don't. Some men think they are being affectionate or
cool by calling girls Babe or Honey right away, but most girls
hate for anyone but a regular boyfriend to give them cute names
like that. Being called Babe by some guy they didn't even meet
yet will turn them off him, and maybe even make them angry.
Using her own name (or the name that she gives) is both polite
and respectful. It's great to be friendly but not over familiar.
If you don't even respect her enough to use her name, you probably
won't get a reply to your message.
2.
Don't use sexual hints or remarks about her body
Any kind of sexual innuendo before you have built up some
kind of relationship is not a great idea. You risk having the
recipient block your messages and possibly report you to the
site administration. Comments about almost any body part except
her eyes will make many women uncomfortable.
If you enjoy making these kinds of comments and want a situation
where it is allowed and even encouraged, look for an adult
dating site. But be aware that the women on those sites will
often expect to be paid for a meeting, if they will agree to
meet you at all. If you are looking for a real date, it is
better to play nice as a member of a regular online dating
site.
3.
Be honest in your profile
The basic rule with profiles is - you can leave things out,
but don't lie. If necessary, ignore questions or say that you
prefer not to answer until you know her better. If you lie
about anything it is likely to be found out at some time. She
may not care that you earn half as much as you told her, but
she will hate that you lied to her.
What you want is someone who wants you - right? So if you
tell a lot of lies to attract someone who will then be disappointed
when she meets you, it has just been a big waste of time.
4.
Use a recent picture For the same reason, mke sure that your photo is a recent
one that really looks like you. On most sites you can post
several photos, so if you want to show off your body, for example,
you can have one beach shot and another where your face is
more clearly seen. In fact, it is a great idea to post several
pictures of yourself in different situations. Don't forget
to smile!
If you have a good reason for not wanting to post a face shot
publicly, then find a way that you can send it along with your
messages to anyone that you contact. She should not have to
ask you for this.
5.
Ask the right questions
You will find that women ask you questions about yourself
in their messages. A lot of men just answer them and end the
message. But communication as women understand it, involves
reciprocation - asking questions in return. If you ask her
some questions about her life and her interests, that is the
equivalent of listening to her in real life. She will love
it.
Use these questions to find out more about her but be careful
that you are not asking for personally identifiable information
because this could scare her. For example, it's great to ask
if she enjoys her job, but not which company she works for.
This is hard for many guys who tend to focus on facts. Their
natural tendency is to ask very factual questions. Learn instead
to focus on her experiences and feelings, and you will have
no trouble picking up women online.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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