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Article Series: Seduction
How To Meet That Girl You Really, Really Want
Safe
Online Dating Tips - For Men
Most people assume that all of the information
on safe online dating is aimed at the women. However, men
also need to be safety conscious when giving out information online.
Keep in mind that anybody can pretend to be anybody online,
and you do not know that your correspondent is who she says
she is, or even that she is female at all.
Most everybody these days knows not to give out personal information
on the internet in case of ID theft. We have all seen phishing
scam emails that try to get our login details or financial
information. However, it is easy to forget our caution when
dealing with what seems to be a gorgeous woman on a dating
site.
If you meet someone online who very quickly asks for personal
details such as last name and address or your place of employment,
or offers them in exchange for yours, be wary. You cannot be
sure why she wants this information but she surely does not
yet need it. It is possible that she just wants to check you
out, but until you have at least talked to her on the phone
you don't have to give any personal details.
Watch
out for women who focus on anything related to money. Sure, women tend to have less money than men, and if she is
upfront about not having much and is fine with it, then it's
not a problem. But if you suspect that she is hinting that
she needs a loan or a gift of money, or if she wants anything
that requires your bank account details, do not give them and
do not contact her again.
The most
common financial scam involves a situation where
you are asked to receive money or pay a cashier's check into
your bank account in exchange for goods or a payment of less
than the amount you have been paid. It seems like you cannot
lose, until the cashier's check is returned by your bank, the
person disappears and you have given goods or paid out money
for nothing.
If a woman gives you her phone number but you always get the
answering machine, you may wonder why, especially if she calls
you back from a different number. Is that really her number?
Maybe she doesn't like answering the phone to strangers, but
once she knows you and recognizes your number, it is reasonable
to expect her to pick up now and again.
Be very cautious if you never get to talk to her on the phone
at all. If all you ever receive is emails and text messages
in response to your phone calls, keep in mind that 'she' may
not be able to talk to you because 'she' is not really a woman.
This may not be a financial scam but perhaps a gay man wasting
your time while he acts out a fantasy. Move on to a real woman
who wants to speak to you.
The great thing about internet dating is that there are so
many genuine people out there, looking for love. All you need
to do is be aware of a few simple rules of safe online dating.
Click here to learn what goes on inside a woman's head. It's a man's guide to the female mind. It's my KissMeGoodnight recommendation.
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2008
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