KissMeGoodnight
Article Series: Seduction
How To Meet That Girl You Really, Really Want
The
Mystery Method of Seduction
The ‘mystery method’ of seduction is a step-by-step
method which is very simple to learn once you understand the
principles of it. The mystery method considers how
men and women choose partners on the basis of their perceived
value to help them either survive or reproduce.
According to the mystery method, men are mainly looking for
replication value: that is, women who will help them reproduce.
This means someone young but fully developed physically, with
wide hips for bearing his children safely, and a nurturing
type of personality that will mean she will care for the children
well. Ideally, he wants to impregnate as many of these women
as possible.
Women, on the other hand, are mainly looking for survival
value: that is, a man who will ensure that the woman and her
children survive. He needs to be strong and healthy, clever
and skillful at finding food and shelter (a good provider),
and able and willing to fight to protect his family. He should
be someone who is prepared to stick around to see her through
the times when she cannot provide for herself and her babies.
There is no particular value to her in having a lot of different
partners, because she can only give birth to a certain number
of children. However, she will want to find the highest value
partner that she can, and may abandon a partner for one with
higher value.
Although this is a very simplistic, biological view, when
you look at it this way you can immediately see why women are
not as concerned about looks as you probably thought. Your
appearance is not nearly so important to her, as hers is to
you. She is more concerned about other factors, including earning
power and your personality.
The mystery method states that individuals
have a powerful emotional reaction to individuals with
higher value. This is
the reason why men have a powerful reaction to extremely attractive
women. It is because of this reaction that men undergo an adrenaline
rush and talk about attractive women ‘driving them wild’.
A woman who is extremely attractive will create such type
of reaction in most men. But she does not want a lot of different
men who are temporarily driven wild by her looks. She has other
values. So according to the mystery method the woman will subconsciously
find a man who seems emotionally unresponsive to her, of higher
value. As a result, she will be drawn to him.
According to this method, you should never let her know that
she drives you wild.
Basically, there are three elements or components in the mystery
method of seduction and they are as follows:
- Attract.
- Comfort.
- Seduce.
Each of these elements is categorized into three phases.
Let us look at the three phases of each stage of this method:
A1
or Attract 1
In
this phase, you need to start a conversation with the woman
or induce her to start one. Conversation is
extremely important and you should not take the next step
unless you have engaged in a good conversation. The A1
stage is extremely
significant even though it does not last for a long time.
If you see an extremely attractive woman that you like,
proceed toward her direction to approach her. It is always
recommended
that you should not walk to her from the back nor should
you
walk straight in to her direction. You can walk at a 45-60
degree angle. Use dismissive body language to start a conversation.
Do not compliment or praise her at this stage. Use short
but unique lines to impress her (seem different from the
rest)
instead of babbling a long story or telling her that you
like her dress.
A2
or Attract 2
Many
men are of the opinion that getting the women attracted to
them is not simple. This is incorrect
thinking because you can attract women very easily. You simply
have to make use of certain techniques like showing higher
value, alpha male traits, etc. Most of the time, this stage
takes about two to ten minutes. However, it may take up to
twenty minutes with some women. Always remember that you
should not praise her on her looks at this stage. When she
shows an
interest in you, step to the next stage.
A3
or Attract 3
This
is a very significant stage. Here you must let the woman
know that you are attracted to her but
not just because of her appearance. If you let her know that
you are interested in her simply because she is beautiful
then she will turn her back on you. She will think that you
are
not as cool as she thought you were. Remember, every guy
since she was a teenager has thought she was gorgeous, so
what’s
so special about you? Show that you are attracted by her
mind, her personality, her opinions.
Comfort
(C1, C2 and C3)
Creating
a comfortable atmosphere is very important in the seduction
process. The majority of
women (except for the party girls) will take a minimum of
three to ten hours and perhaps more than one meeting to get
into
the comfort phase. C1 or the ‘connection’ phase will occur
in the location where you have first attracted the lady.
C2 or the ‘trust’ stage will take place in a more comfortable
location. Lastly, C3 or the ‘intimacy’ stage will take place
in the place where you plan to seduce her.
Seduction
(S1, S2 and S3)
S1
is the arousal stage where you have to turn her on. S2 is
the stage of resistance where
the woman feels some resistance to you as she would not like
to think of herself as a slut. This is normal, almost inevitable,
so expect it and deal with it. In this stage you need to
be patient but persist. She wants to be seduced at this stage,
but she needs reassurance. S3 is the stage where you actually
get into bed with her. Always remember to seduce her in a
place
where you will not be disturbed. If you are planning to seduce her in your own home then make
sure that your place is clean and hygienic. Many women find
the idea of a dirty place abhorrent. You may have aroused her
but if she finds that your place is dirty and untidy then she
may change her mind. I am not saying that your home should
be spotless. Just clean enough to make her comfortable.
 
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