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Can Music Improve Your Sex Life?
When it comes to getting intimate, dead silence
doesn't always encourage a sexy mood. A little background sound
can create a nicer atmosphere, as long as it's the right kind
of sound. For example, turning on the television is a risk
because you might become distracted by Letterman's Top Ten
list. Playing the radio or your favorite CD is a safer option.
Both you and your partner are likely to enjoy music as a backdrop
to lovemaking. But why not take that notion a step further
and create your own erotic musical playlist?
The
idea here is to program a series of songs in a way that
sets the right mood and adds a deeper level of enjoyment to
intimacy. It's easy to do. Start by collecting some tunes that
you and your partner like. If you are into thrash metal and
your girlfriend prefers Kelly Clarkson, you're going to have
to compromise and find some middle ground. Try to choose songs
that your partner really likes and that you don't loathe. Having
to listening to music that you personally despise is going
to throw you off your game.
Now arrange the songs in an order that might correspond to
your encounter. Try to follow a natural ebb and flow. For example,
start off with something slow and sweet, pick up the passion
with mid-tempo songs, and follow it up with something pounding
and heartfelt. End your sexy set by gradually slowing things
down again. Use whatever technology you prefer to create the
playlist. For example, you can program your mp3 player or burn
a CD on your computer.
How
many songs should be in the playlist? To be honest, that
depends on how much time you normally spend making love. Try
to come up with at least 15 songs or enough to fill up a CD.
You can always restart the music when you get to the end.
Why
incorporate music into lovemaking? There are several reasons.
Music keeps a certain part of the mind occupied. You know,
the busy, anxious part that is thinking about work or the news
or what's in the fridge. That side of the brain needs to turn
off so we can focus on physical sensations and emotional connection.
Now, some guys may not have the problem of a distracted mind
during sex, but many women could use help to stay in the moment.
In addition, music affects us both emotionally and physiologically.
We literally feel music in our bodies, which means that the
right kind of music can stimulate erotic sensations. Hearing
music we enjoy during intimate moments can make the experience
more physically and emotionally satisfying. Each new song on
the playlist can re-energize you or mark a natural point to
start doing something different.
You may think the idea of an erotic playlist sounds corny,
but your partner is sure to be impressed by your effort. Who
wouldn't be flattered that you went to all the trouble of creating
a unique lover's soundtrack for the two of you? Used in the
right way, music can be exciting, arousing, and sexy. It really
is the perfect accompaniment to lovemaking. > For
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: 2010
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