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How
to Improve Your Sex Life by Slowing Things Down - Advice
for Men
A frequent complaint of women is that their
partner doesn't give them enough foreplay. Or he rushes through
lovemaking and leaves them feeling a little frustrated. It's
not a hard and fast rule, but generally women become aroused
more slowly and take longer to achieve orgasm than men. And
this difference is sometimes a source of conflict. If only
there were a way for a man to put on the brakes until his partner
catches up with him in terms of sexual excitement. Actually,
there is. Here's how men can become better lovers simply by
learning to slow down.
First, let's clarify what we mean by slowing down. We are
actually referring to prolonging erection and delaying ejaculation.
Let's face it, gentlemen. Once orgasm has occurred, the erection
goes away and so does your interest in sex - temporarily, at
least. At that point all you really want to do is roll over
and go to sleep.
But when you have the ability to consciously slow down and
make the erection last, you can enjoy intercourse longer and
provide your partner with more pleasure. Instead of rushing
towards a climax, you are in control. You can take the time
to bring your partner to a higher state of arousal so that
she is longing for even more.
Slowing
down and respecting your partner's pace of arousal will
give her more sexual fulfillment. Why is it important
to make your partner happy in bed? For one thing, it shows
that you care about how she feels. For another thing, she will
be more enthusiastic about having sex in the future when she
knows she will be thoroughly satisfied by the experience. Sounds
like a win-win situation!
If you're like many men, you've accidentally conditioned yourself
to climax quickly. After all, when you masturbate in spare
moments during the day, you learn to get things done fast,
right? But when there's a partner involved, you have to override
that conditioning somehow.
Thinking about other non-sexual things is something a lot
of men do to slow down their rate of arousal. As you probably
know, your body reaches a certain point when ejaculation can't
be delayed any longer - it will happen. The trick, my friend,
is to get close to that point but never quite there, allowing
yourself to achieve orgasm only when you decide the time is
right.
There are specific exercises you can do to prolong an erection
and delay ejaculation. You may find it worthwhile to do a little
research on the topic. For example, Tantric sex includes certain
practices that help you control your sexual response, making
it last as long as you want it to. In fact, it may come as
a surprise to you but men can actually climax without ejaculation
and without losing the erection. Men who've learned this skill
often describe the experience as a whole-body orgasm.
The idea might seem strange or even unnatural at first. But
you'll soon realize the benefits of slowing down and delaying
ejaculation. Possessing this type of self-control definitely
puts you a cut above the average fellow. Your partner is
certain to appreciate passion that lasts a little longer
and gives her more pleasure. > For
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2010
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