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I Want A Better Sex Life. Teach Me How.
How
to Improve Your Sex Life by Speeding Things Up - Advice for
Women
One of the most common sexual
issues in a relationship concerns the erotic response of
men and women.
There are always exceptions, but in general a man becomes aroused
much more quickly than a woman does and can achieve climax
in a fraction of the time it takes her. As a result, some women
feel a certain amount of pressure from their partner to hurry
up. Here are some tips to help women "speed things up" and
enjoy a more fulfilling sex life.
As a woman, you may have experienced times when your partner
was trying to please you but it was just taking too long. Perhaps
you began to feel awkward or impatient. Finally you gave up
and decided that it didn't matter whether you were satisfied.
Maybe next time, right?
Well, that's a terrible way to conduct a relationship. If
you are frequently unsatisfied in the bedroom, you can't help
but start to feel resentful or indifferent about sexual intimacy.
It's important to understand that there's nothing wrong with
you. You have the same capacity for sexual enjoyment as your
male partner. What you need are some ways to achieve a higher
level of arousal, faster and more reliably.
Here are some suggestions:
1)
Learn more about your own body. The best way to do this
is through masturbation. Figure out exactly where and how you
like to be touched for the most powerful effect. Share this
information with your partner. A demonstration is always good.
2)
Fantasize during sex. If you give it some thought, you
may discover certain erotic images in your mind that are a
genuine turn-on. Draw on those ideas and mental pictures to
get more excited and to stay that way during lovemaking. By
the way, you don't have to tell your partner what you're thinking
about.
3)
Use toys for intense and reliable stimulation. Adult toys
are popular for a reason. Certain devices can offer a type
of erotic sensation that you can't obtain by any other means.
These sexual accessories are in no way a replacement for your
partner. Think of a toy as an appetizer to get your mouth watering
for the main course, or as a dessert to leave you sated and
happy.
The common thread here is that you are taking charge of your
sexual satisfaction rather than leaving it up to someone else.
But don't get the wrong idea about speeding things up. The
point isn't to get sex over with as quickly as possible. The
point is to learn how to maximize your sexual response so you
can enjoy more pleasure and fulfillment with your partner. > For
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2010
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