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Valentine's
Day Advice For Married Couples
Valentine's Day - the day of lovers and for
lovers. What significance does it have for many married couples?
Imagine getting up early, getting ready for work and rushing
off as usual. On the way, when you watch the scenes outside,
you realize that it is Valentine's Day! But you have many other
worries of office and home. The worries and the daily grind
of life kills the joy. What used to be awaited by you goes
away without any celebration. Why? Where is the spirit gone?
Has age made any difference? Has life changed for you? Have
the priorities shifted? Is it that you have thousand other
worries than thinking of celebrating Valentine's Day?
As we grow, we change. What used to give us joy during the
childhood, stops doing when we are young. How many teens make
sand castles? And as we grow older, the objects of joy during
the youth become equally insignificant. Why?
A
thing of joy is forever. Why cannot an old person enjoy
making sand castles, run behind a butterfly to catch it, or
try and win hearts as he/she used to do in young age? Why do
we lose our life and become dead bodies going around doing
routine work? Why cannot we bring back the days of childhood
and youth and be happy and feel elated at all the times? All
this applies to a married couple. After few years, and in some
cases, few months, the romance goes away from life.
Some things are life giving. Love
is one such magic. It can
give new life and joy to anyone. How to recapture this after
marriage? Can it be recaptured? It can be to a certain extent.
Because one cannot go back to enjoy the thrill of wooing one's
sweetheart again, as he/she has already been conquered. Let
us find out what can be recaptured and how? How about sitting
together and watching the moon? How about walking together
in rains? How about sharing ice cream from the same cup? How
about buying clothes for each other with the same passion?
How about feeling bad when alone and feeling extreme joy when
together? How about reciting poetries? Make a list of all that
you did when you fell in love. Find out what all you have stopped.
Redo them with more vigor and bring your love back in life.
A marriage can be a very happy marriage if the partners love
each other every moment, if their heartbeats increase when
they look at each other. Sounds silly? But this can also be
done. Go back to your love and say Happy Valentine's Day to
your spouse with the same passion as you did earlier.
Why should we watch passively and see our love dying? Why
should we not make every effort to love with the same romance
that we experienced when we met our sweetheart for the first
time?
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2010
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