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Out Some Valentine’s Day Phobias
Valentine’s Day is just round the corner and
the whole world is gearing up to celebrate this upcoming season
of love and passion, the season of mushy romance, and gifting
chocolates, flowers and cards to your beloved! But alas! The
thought of Valentine’s Day approaching drives you nuts! Valentine’s
Day is nothing more than a nightmare for you and a great fear
factor! You start to think that you are abnormal. Well fortunately
you are not an exception. There are many others like you who
simply dread the approach of Valentines Day as they are taken
over by myriad kinds of so-called V-Day phobias! Such men and
women just avoid interacting with the opposite sex and prefer
to spend this day in solitude and loneliness.
Phobias are common psychiatric illness. They are common forms
of anxiety disorders that are common for people of all ages.
A person can be the victim of phobias on Valentines Day also.
In that case the person will shun the fun and festivity of
the season and will prefer to stay aloof from all the festive
activities related to Valentine’s Day.
Here is a list of certain phobias that can surely make one’s
life hell and prove to be a huge spoilsport for those eager
to have a lovely time during the Valentine’s season.
Orintho-Apiphobia: fear of birds and bees. A person having this phobia will
avoid places like gardens, lawns and nature
parks. So taking a stroll down the garden or the park or bird
watching together with your sweetheart will not be a very good
idea for you on Valentine’s Day!
Dorapophobia: fear
of furs. So pre-warn your Valentine as to avoid gifting you
any kind
of furry gifts or else he/she will
have to face dramatic consequences that are sure to spoil
your V-Day celebrations outright.
Anlophobia: fear of flowers. So a flower gift is a strict no-no in this
case. And Valentine’s
Day without flowers is
just so
bland and dull! After all the bright colors of a bunch
of fresh flowers definitely sets the mood for some mushy
V-Day
celebrations
with your sweetheart.
Zelophobia: fear of jealousy. You obviously can’t get green at the drop
of a hat suspecting
your lover of infidelity!
Continuous jealousy will obviously take a toll on your
relationship! You
will just go insane handling such pangs of zelophobia
quite often!
Amoraphobia: fear
of love. You may fear to fall in love with anyone thinking
of losing him/her forever. You
must
know
that even if you lose your love, the sweet memories
of time spent
together are enough to sweeten up your entire life.
So gather up enough courage and dare to fall in love! You
will treasure
and cherish all the sweet moments spent with your sweetheart
throughout your life even if you happen to lose your
Mr. Right or Ms. Right in the long run.
Gamophobia: fear of marriage. With the increase in the number of divorce
cases you might seriously develop
an
aversion
of tying the knot! With all those wife beating and
husband torture
incidents making headlines so often you fear of ending
up with a failed marriage. So a marriage proposal
might trigger
violent
repercussions on your side that will surely make
your Valentine feel pathetic!
Arotophobia: fear of physical love. You hate being hugged and kissed;
touched and caressed
that is all
so essentially
important
in a love relationship. If you detest the touch
of your Valentine then your relationship is doomed!
Ereuthophobia: fear
of blushing. You may try to control the expression of your
body and face just
a bit too
much. So
if you are afraid of revealing that beautiful
red blush to your
new Valentine then you are sure to have a tough
time! It’s very difficult to forcefully hide
your own reactions
towards
your sweetheart as you ‘fear to blush’!
Haphephobia: fear
of touching or being touched. You may think that touching
your sweetheart will
cause
infection
or is
just too yuck! But you must know that our body
is meant to feel
the sensation of love. Touch conveys tender
love and if you hate it then how can you feel love?
Hedonophobia: fear
of having any kind of fun. You are averse to the concept
of having fun
and enjoying
yourself.
Well
if that is the case then Valentine’s Day
is just not for you as
the main essence of V-Day is to have great
fun with your sweetheart doing all kinds
of things
that add
to your
love and happiness
on this special day.
Obligaphobia: Related
to the fear of commitment. When you love someone you have
to commit
yourself totally
to achieve
the
maximum satisfaction in your relationship.
If you are always trying to avoid commitment
then
you
can forever
bid goodbye
to your love!
Gynophobia: fear
of girls. The princess of your dreams draws the blood out
of
your veins
and
you go cold
while interacting
with women. Try to overcome this fear
or else forget of loving and being loved by
God’s most
delicate
and beautiful
creations.
Androphobia: fear of men. If you are afraid of interacting with men you
can
never fulfill
your
desire to marry
the ‘man’ of your dreams! If you think you are a victim of any one or more of the above
discussed phobias don’t hesitate to seek professional help
and guidance! Otherwise you will become a prisoner in your
own home on the day of love and fun. Enjoy going out and having
a great time with your Valentine on this special day and don’t
make your Valentine’s Day a day of isolation for the fear of
any goddamn thing!
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by KissMeGoodnight.com
: 2006
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